8.12.2025

August 12 | Living Worthy of Our Calling Together | Ephesians 4 Interactive Bible Study


EPHESIANS 4 INTERACTIVE BIBLE STUDY


Welcome to week 4!

PRAYERFULLY READ EPHESIANS 4 BEFORE READING THE FOLLOWING INTERACTIVE BIBLE STUDY.

Facilitator: Pastor Arp

Text:  Ephesians 4:1-16

Day 1 – PRO (Prayer, Read, Observe)

Theme: Unity, Growth, and Grace in the Body of Christ


🌟 INTRODUCTION – Pastor Arp

The sun streams in through the church windows. The women are seated in temperament circles, Bibles open, notepads ready. Warm chatter hums through the room, but there’s a holy anticipation.

Pastor Arp steps forward, voice steady with purpose:

“Sisters, welcome. Today we don’t just read—we live this Word.

Ephesians 4 is our blueprint for maturity—for unity—for truth wrapped in love. This is not a casual stroll; Paul urges us to walk worthy of our calling.

But first, an honest check-in: Have you made time for the Word (Ephesians 4) and prayer today?   Is God first—or squeezed in? When we stop prioritizing the Word, our love begins to grow cold. And in a community like this, consistency matters.

Your presence here is not just appreciated—it’s necessary. Every temperament, every gift, every sister—you matter. Let’s walk worthy together.  Let's pray before we begin our study.”


πŸ™ P – PRAYER

“Lord, we slow down to hear from You.
Remove distractions.
Knit our hearts in unity right now.
Let every word of Ephesians 4 awaken our call, convict our hearts, and draw us closer—to You and to one another.
In Jesus’ name, amen.”


πŸ“– R – READ  

(Each temperament group takes turns reading Ephesians 4:1–16.)

  • Cholerics – upright posture, firm tones. Gale reads with strength, Debra’s delivery is crisp, Tessie’s voice carries quiet fire.

  • Sanguines – lively and expressive. Debbie grins mid-verse, Alison leans forward as she reads, Cassandra exclaims “Wow!” after her passage.

  • Melancholics – deliberate and reverent. Alanda’s voice is measured, Melanie’s confident yet reflective, Jesmyn pauses for weight.

  • Phlegmatics – gentle and steady. Maria’s voice soothes, Claudia reads slowly, the group nodding in quiet agreement.


πŸ”Ž O – OBSERVE (Interactive Sharing)

πŸ”΄ CHOLERIC GROUP – Focused & purposeful

Gale: “Paul’s not making suggestions—he’s urging action.”

Debra: “Walk, equip, grow—this is a faith checklist.”

Tessie: “Verse 13—maturity in Christ takes discipline.”

Pastor Arp:
 “Direct and driven—channel that strength through God’s Word.”


🟑 SANGUINE GROUP – Joyful & relational

Debbie: “Verse 2—‘bear with one another.’ That’s staying in love, not leaving the room.”

Cassandra: “We’re all different parts of the same body—team spirit!”

Alison: “Verse 15—truth in love is hard when you’d rather avoid awkwardness.”

Pastor Arp:
 “Your joy plus truth is light in darkness—keep it rooted.”


πŸ”΅ MELANCHOLIC GROUP – Thoughtful & precise

Alanda: “Paul’s order matters—unity, growth, behaviour.”

Cindy: “Verse 14—emotional steadiness matters.”

Hazel: “Unity takes effort—spiritual labor.”

Jesmyn: “Balancing truth and love is hard.”

Trudy: “Verse 25—truthfulness matters to God.”

Laura: “Verse 29—watch my tone and sarcasm.”

Alynthia: “Verse 26—feel emotions but release them God’s way.”

Glenda: “Grieving the Spirit—that hits hard.”

Deborah W.: “Verse 32—kindness and forgiveness are maturity.”

Theresa: “Paul’s fatherly but firm tone calls us to grow.”

Michelle: “Measure yourself by Christ, not others.”

Melanie: “Verse 17—mental renewal is a constant fight.”

Pastor Arp:
 “Your depth becomes discernment when filtered through grace.”


🟒 PHLEGMATIC GROUP – Peaceful & steady

Ann C.: “Verse 2—humility and gentleness are a calling.”

Anne A.: “Verse 3—peace is an assignment, not avoidance.”

Jacintha: “Consistency—not perfection—is the goal.”

Claudia: “Truth in love needs Holy Spirit courage.”

Maria: “Even quiet parts build the body in love.”

Pastor Arp:
 “You guard the peace—and that’s priceless.”


Go Light 
If something stirred your heart today,
simply type “Amen” in the comments. 
That's it!  No pressure—just presence.

Or…

Go Deep πŸ’­
Type “Amen” in the comments and share which statement in today’s study (Observe)
—and by whom—
spoke most deeply to you.
Let’s hear the words that lingered in your spirit.


🌺 CLOSING WORD – Pastor Arp

“You’ve listened, shared, and reflected—and that’s the start of spiritual maturity.

Come tomorrow. God willing, ready to explore Meaning and Practice. Let the Word shape how you speak, how you bear with others, and how you lead or follow.

You are loved. You are needed. Let’s walk worthy—together.”

49 comments:

  1. Debra McLeishAugust 12, 2025

    Good morning Sisters
    Happy Tuesday!

    Ephesians4: 1-16

    Amen! As I read the scripture I see this passage as a road map to spiritual growth & maturity. It is saturated with practical advise on how we should live. I am looking forward to going deeper in the word.

    Have a blessed day all!

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    1. A road map indeed Sister Debra. I got up this morning and was thinking that Ephesians 4 has a list of the Before and Now - the road we walked before and the road we are walking now. Thank you.

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    2. Sis, That road will always lead us into His truth. I'm so proud of you. Stay in the Word!! ❤️

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  2. Good morning everyone
    Ephesians 4

    Amen!

    Alynthia: “Verse 26—feel emotions but release them God’s way.”

    This statement spoke most deeply to me today.

    The words that lingers in my spirit are "Emotion" and "Release"

    Have a blessed day!!

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    1. Yes, powerful words Sister Glenda. We have to release emotions God's way. Thanks for noting and sharing this.

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    2. "Sister Glenda, I camped out on this one too. We definitely have to release those emotions to God."

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  3. Good Morning Sisters

    Happy Tuesday

    AMEN!

    Every observation I read was such an eye-opener. But when I got to Verse 2 — “bear with one another” — and read Debbie’s words, “That’s staying in love, not leaving the room,” it was like a bright light switched on inside me literally.

    Love sticks it out. It doesn’t just get up and walk away. No matter what. WOW!!!

    Thank you Pastor ARP πŸ™‚

    Have A Blessed Day!

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    1. Oh yes Sister Debbie, verse 2 did switch on a bright light. (I see you like what you said in the study with Pastor ARP😊. Thanks for sharing.

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    2. πŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌ..

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    3. Amen Sis Debbie,
      I am loving your expression of the light switch connection ..Wow!!

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  4. Gale (Cho/Mel)August 12, 2025

    Good morning, Wisdom Seekers.
    I do hope all is well.

    Today, I Go Deep.

    So many statements in the Observation section of the study spoke to me. Here are the ones that stood out most—one from each temperament—and how they impacted me:

    Tessie: “Verse 13—maturity in Christ takes discipline.”
    This reaffirmed what I already know but must apply to my life daily—if I want to mature in Christ, I must be willing to face the truth of God’s Word and discipline myself to follow it.

    Debbie: “Verse 2—‘bear with one another.’ That’s staying in love, not leaving the room.”
    Oh, this one got me because I struggle with this daily—being tempted to give up on some people—but it’s such a great reminder to suffer long and bear with others in love. Thank You, Lord.

    Melanie: “Verse 17—mental renewal is a constant fight.”
    Yes, the enemy of our souls never gives up, so I must be vigilant—fighting in the power of the Holy Spirit to renew my mind daily.

    Jacintha: “Consistency—not perfection—is the goal.”
    This is so true. When I aim for perfection, I’m more likely to quit. But when I focus on remaining consistent, even in my imperfection, transformation takes place.

    These are my takeaways from today’s Observation section.
    I’m looking forward to hearing what stood out to you as you go deep today.

    Wishing everyone a wonderful and fruitful day.

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    1. "Sister Penny, thank you for sharing these life-altering nuggets. They are truly eye-opening.

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    2. Amen Lady Gale, yes I concur with your choices continents.

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  5. Good morning everyone
    Ephesians 4

    Amen to the statements

    Debbie: “Verse 2—‘bear with one another.’ That’s staying in love, not leaving the room.”
    I have to make allowances for others, not to criticize but be patient and be there for them in love.

    Alynthia: “Verse 26—feel emotions but release them God’s way."
    It's ok for me to express my emotions but it's key to do so in love.
    Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on the cause of your anger.

    Blessed day to all.

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    1. Thanks for sharing sister Theresa. These are godly principal to live by...

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    2. Amen Sis Theresa, We think alike, so I am just joining in agreement with you!!

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    3. And me too, Amen! Thanks for sharing Sister Theresa.

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  6. Good morning, everyone!

    Amen!

    The statement in today’s study that spoke most deeply to me was:

    Deborah W.:“Verse 32—kindness and forgiveness are maturity.”
    Choosing kindness when it’s hard and extending forgiveness when it’s undeserved is a sign of true growth and maturity in Christ.

    Have a wonderful day!

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    1. Very well said Sister Cindy. PROFOUND!! Like my son will say, "I like it" πŸ˜€

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    2. Amen Sis. Cindy, these 2 circumstances in your statements; " When it's hard...... & when it's undeserved".....truly speaks to maturity!!

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    3. Yes, sisters, ...when it's hard...when it's underserving. As one sister once said, "this is big people food." To be able to do this means we are maturing. Thanks Sister Cindy!

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  7. Trudy PennyAugust 12, 2025

    Good morning everyone ☀️

    Amen! I enjoyed the interactive bible study!

    What stood out to me was: Hazel: “Unity takes effort—spiritual labor.”

    Unity doesn’t come easily, it takes work!! It takes spiritual labour! Let’s not grow weary in our labour of love!

    Have a great day~

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    1. Amen Sis Trudy I love this admonishment; " Let's not grow weary in our labour of love!

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    2. And to add to this Sister Glenda, as mothers we know what labour is like so let's push. Something great is on its way. Thanks Sister Trudy.

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  8. Dr. Truds. Unity surely takes an effort to foster We must become intentional. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. I am bless with all the comments and scriptures
      Really a blessing to see growth and dedication in the lives of all the wisdom seekers

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  9. Ann CallisteAugust 12, 2025

    Morning everyone
    AMEN
    Claudia - truth in love needs holy sprit courage
    To build up not tear down with humility and grace
    Blessed Tuesday everyone

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    1. That is so true Sister Ann C. “Truth in love needs Holy Spirit courage.” Thanks for sharing.

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  10. Good morning ladies,
    Melanie point stood out to me.
    I have to renew my mind daily;
    I no longer live like the Gentiles do
    I have learned the truth in christ.

    I enjoy this interactive Bible study

    Melanie: “Verse 17—mental renewal is a constant fight.”
    Yes, the enemy of our souls never gives up, so I must be vigilant—fighting in the power of the Holy Spirit to renew my mind daily.
    Amen.

    Have a wonderful day ladies

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    1. I am so happy to know you are enjoying this interactive Bible Study Sister Anne. Hmm, could it be because of the Pastor (LOL). Yes, Melanie's statement was one that stood out to me too. Thanks for sharing.

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  11. Good morning, everyone!

    Happy holiday Tuesday to our Grenadian sisters, and happy Tuesday to our Canadian sisters and others alike.

    I really love chapter 4—it reminds me of who I once was and who I am now in Christ. I also love what Anne A. shared: “Peace is an assignment, not avoidance.”

    The verse that stood out to me is verse 27: “Neither give place to the devil.”

    Stay in the Word.
    Love you all, Wisdom Seekers!

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    1. Thanks for sharing Sister Alison. We have to be aware of giving the devil a foothold in our lives.

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  12. Thanks for sharing Sister Alison. Yes indeed, Peace is an assignment, not avoidance.

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  13. Good day ladies.
    Amen!
    Michelle: “Measure yourself by Christ, not others.”
    This speak powerfully to me, not to loose sight of who my eyes should be stayed up on. God measure is all the measurements that is necessary for transformation.
    Alanda: “Paul’s order matters—unity, growth, behaviour.”
    The word unity in Ephesians has given me a new prospective its challenging me to leave unnecessary things alone, it's challenging me to focus my near sightedness to longer ranges; my focal points need correcting
    Hazel: “Unity takes effort—spiritual labor.”
    It caused me to think on this question, what efforts am I putting in to arrive at unity? Is my spiritual labour enough to arrive at the unity God desires from me.
    Blessings

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    1. Great Sister Tessie! "Your unity and near-sightedness analogy is spot-on—God calls us to lift our eyes from small distractions to His bigger, eternal vision." Thanks for your input.

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    2. Insightful sis Tessie !

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  14. Good day Ladies verse 15 but speaking the truth
    In love we are to grow up in all aspects into him
    Who is the head even Christ

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    1. Hello Sister Lilly. Great to see you on the blog. Great verse choice! Thanks for sharing.

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    2. Lovely Sis Lilly !Amen!

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    3. Hello Sis. Lilly, good to see you.
      Your verse choice is a good reminder for us when speaking truth.
      Blessings

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  15. Howdy Ladies,
    Hope everyone is doing well ,
    AMEN !
    A few of these statements resonate with me today ! 
    Cindy: “Verse 14—emotional steadiness matters.”
    Melanie: “Verse 17—mental renewal is a constant fight.”
    Jacintha: “Consistency—not perfection—is the goal.”
    great reminder for me as this is one of my growth areas.

    Have a restful night 

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  16. August 12 2025
    EPHESIANS 4 INTERACTIVE BIBLE STUDIES.
    "Amen"
    Sis.Hazel : " Unity takes effort- spiritual labor."
    Is one of many that spoke to me.
    Unity will not just happen , it takes great effort by everyone, with the guidance of the Holy spirit.
    Blessings.

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  17. Amen
    This statement stood out to me today as I observed the text.

    Gale: “Paul’s not making suggestions—he’s urging action."
    This is the lifestyle the practical way that is expected of me to live out in my daily life.
    Blessings

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  18. Hello ladies
    AMEN

    Michelle: Measure yourself by christ not others.

    Deborah W: Verse 32 kindness and forgiveness is maturity.

    These two statements have stood out to me because they remind me not to focus or fear others opinions , but keep my attention centered on God. Which is a key point in life as well as kindness and forgiveness. Since not everyone has the ability to do so and I was gifted that ability then I must be mature and display not just kindness but also forgiveness.

    Good night everyone.

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  19. Hello everyone,
    This is that tugging on my heart
    Melanie: “Verse 17—mental renewal is a constant fight.”

    This is so true, it is a constant fight. Paul admonished us in the book of Romans 12:2b to be transformed by the renewing of your mind. To do that it takes discipline, determination, and consistency. It cannot be done by one’s self only. We need support and encouragement. But most of all the help of the Holy Spirit.
    Have a restful night everyone

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  20. Good night everyone.
    I trust all had a nice day:

    Ephesians 4:
    Debbie: “Verse 2—‘bear with one another.’ That’s staying in love, not leaving the room.”

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  21. Michelle: “Measure yourself by Christ, not others

    Tessie: “Verse 13—maturity in Christ takes discipline.”

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