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DAY 2 - WEEK 4 RESPONSES
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WELCOME BACK – Pastor Arp's Warm Return
Standing near the front, hands folded with his bible open, pastor arp speaks in his gentle yet intentional tone, scanning the group with affection.
“Welcome back, my sisters. I trust you’ve had moments to sit with the word—quietly, consistently. I know life can be full and demanding, but when we press into scripture with intention, god meets us right where we are.
Yesterday, Paul called us to walk worthy of our calling. Today, we’ll take a deeper step into what that truly means—looking at the heart of the text and stepping into real-life scenarios that help us see how to live it out.
Let’s slow down, listen well, and let the spirit speak—not just to our minds, but to our hearts and daily habits.”
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๐ P - PRACTICE - APPLYING IT TO YOUR LIFE
“Walk worthy of your calling” (v. 1)
“Bearing with one another in love” (v. 2)
“Unity of the Spirit” (v. 3)
“Speaking the truth in love” (v. 15)
“Grow up into Christ” (v. 13)
He then turns back to the group:
“These aren’t vague spiritual ideas. They are deeply practical, but they also require transformation.
Let's read Ephesians 4 before we unpack these phrases.”
1️⃣ “Walk worthy of your calling”
– Ephesians 4:1
๐ Greek Word: Axios
Meaning: Properly balanced, having equal weight.
To walk worthy means to live a life that is in balance with the high calling God has placed on us—not one that contradicts or cheapens it.
Pastor Arp:
“This isn’t a performance, sisters—it’s about integrity. Does your walk carry the weight of your calling?”
๐ฌ Reflections:
Gale (Chol/Mel): “That balance challenges me. I tend to push forward in my strengths, but I’m learning that character has to match calling.”
Debbie (San/Chol): “I want my joy and friendliness to reflect Christ—not just my personality.”
Alanda (Mel/Phleg): “That word ‘worthy’ made me pause. I’ve struggled to feel worthy at all. But this reminds me—it’s not about my worth. It’s His.”
Hazel (Mel/San): “It reminded me that worth is tied to obedience, not my feelings. I need to lean into that.”
Ann C. (Phleg/Mel): “Walking worthy for me means showing up even when I feel unseen.”
๐ Practice Scenario:
Prompt: You’ve been asked to lead a ministry task with someone who works differently than you—slower, less precise, or with a different personality style. How do you “walk worthy” in that moment?
Gale: “I’d want to get the job done quickly, but I’ll remind myself—this is not about efficiency alone. I must also leave room for the Spirit’s work in them.”
Debbie: “I can keep my friendliness, but also focus on gently encouraging excellence without making them feel rushed or inferior.”
Alanda: “I’ll keep telling myself my worth—and theirs—is rooted in Christ, not performance.”
Hazel: “For me, walking worthy means obeying even when my feelings say I can’t.”
Ann C.: “Even if no one notices my part, I’ll show up and do it with a whole heart.”
Pastor Arp’s Direction:
“Your calling is not proven by how much you do, but by how you do it—consistent with the Spirit’s character.”
2️⃣ “Bearing with one another in love” – Ephesians 4:2
๐ Greek Word: Anechomai
Meaning: To endure patiently; to hold oneself up; to put up with.
It’s not just tolerating—it’s staying with someone in love, even in difficulty.
Pastor Arp:
“Bearing doesn’t mean enabling. It means staying present in love—even when others are difficult.”
๐ฌ Reflections:
Jacintha (Phleg/Mel): “That’s hard. I usually just pull away quietly when people are difficult. But love stays.”
Cassandra (San/Chol): “This convicted me. I get loud when frustrated. But God’s calling me to bear, not blare.”
Theresa (Mel/Chol): “I realized I can stay physically—but emotionally, I leave. The Spirit’s working on that.”
Laura (Mel/Phleg): “I avoid people who drain me. This verse calls me to lean in with love.”
Anne A. (Phleg/Mel): “Bearing in love means I can’t keep avoiding awkward conversations.”
๐ Practice Scenario:
Prompt: You’re paired with a sister in ministry who frequently talks over you or ignores your ideas. How will you bear with her in love without disengaging or becoming bitter?
Jacintha: “Instead of quietly disappearing, I’ll speak once and then follow up with her later in private, kindly.”
Cassandra: “I’ll lower my voice instead of raising it when I’m frustrated, and keep my body language open.”
Theresa: “I’ll keep my heart present, not just my body, and ask the Spirit to help me stay engaged.”
Laura: “I’ll give her my full attention instead of silently wishing I was elsewhere.”
Anne A.: “I’ll choose a time to talk about it with her in peace, instead of letting it build up.”
Pastor Arp’s Direction:
“Bearing with one another is active love. It’s not passively staying—it’s intentionally choosing connection.”
3️⃣ “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit” – Ephesians 4:3
๐ Greek Phrase: Spoudazล tฤrein
Meaning: To labor earnestly to guard or protect.
Unity is Spirit-given; we must guard it.
Pastor Arp:
“Unity is fragile, sisters. And we each carry a weapon—or a tool—in our temperament. Will you protect unity or pierce it?”
๐ฌ Reflections:
Melanie (Mel/Phleg): “I keep quiet, thinking I’m helping unity—but silence isn’t always peace. Sometimes it’s neglect.”
Maria (Phleg/Chol): “That word guard stood out. Guarding unity sometimes means having hard conversations.”
Debra (Chol/San): “Unity used to feel like ‘don’t rock the boat.’ Now I see it means actively rowing together.”
Jesmyn (Mel/Phleg): “Guarding unity means stepping in when division starts—not watching from the sidelines.”
Glenda (Mel/Chol): “My words can either seal unity or split it. That’s sobering.”
๐ Practice Scenario:
Prompt: You notice a few sisters in your group exchanging negative comments about another leader. What do you do to guard unity?
Melanie: “I’ll gently steer the conversation toward prayer or encouragement, instead of letting it slide.”
Maria: “I’ll pull them aside privately and ask, ‘Is this building unity—or breaking it down?’”
Debra: “I’ll row alongside them by addressing the concern, but redirecting the energy to a group solution.”
Jesmyn: “If it’s in my hearing, I’ll speak up kindly and remind them of our shared mission.”
Glenda: “Before I speak, I’ll ask—will this comment seal the crack, or widen it?”
Pastor Arp’s Direction:
“Unity is guarded one choice at a time—by turning gossip into grace and criticism into prayer.”
4️⃣ “Speaking the truth in love” – Ephesians 4:15
๐ Greek Word: Aletheuล
Meaning: To truth it; to live out truth in speech and action.
Pastor Arp:
“Truth is not a hammer. It’s a scalpel. Use it with precision—and love.”
๐ฌ Reflections:
Debra (Chol/San): “Ouch. I’ve used truth to dominate. The Holy Spirit is softening that.”
Glenda (Mel/Chol): “I tend to say what’s right—but not always at the right time or tone. Truth must be timely too.”
Alison (San/Chol): “I avoid hard truth because I don’t want to hurt feelings. But that’s not love either.”
Trudy (Mel/Phleg): “Silence in the name of love can be just as damaging as harsh truth.”
Alynthia (Mel/Phleg): “I check my motive before I speak—am I building or breaking?”
๐ Practice Scenario:
Prompt: You see a sister making a repeated choice that’s damaging her witness. How do you speak the truth in love without alienating her?
Debra: “I’ll speak privately and start with what I appreciate about her, then address the concern clearly.”
Glenda: “I’ll wait until my tone is right—then speak directly but gently.”
Alison: “I’ll pray first for courage, then frame it as concern for her walk with Christ.”
Trudy: “I’ll say something now instead of assuming someone else will.”
Alynthia: “I’ll remind myself my motive is love, not winning an argument.”
Pastor Arp’s Direction:
“Truth spoken in love heals—truth without love wounds, and love without truth withholds healing.”
5️⃣ “Grow up into Christ” – Ephesians 4:13, 15
๐ Greek Word: Auxanล
Meaning: To increase, to become greater.
Pastor Arp:
“Spiritual growth isn’t just reading more Scripture. It’s becoming more like Jesus.”
๐ฌ Reflections:
Michelle (Mel/Phleg): “This freed me. Growth isn’t comparison—it’s transformation.”
Claudia (Phleg/Mel): “I may be quiet, but I’m growing. That verse told me I don’t need to be loud to mature.”
Tessie (Chol/Mel): “I’ve grown in leadership, but not always in gentleness.”
Cindy (Mel/Chol): “Growing up into Christ means letting go of perfectionism and embracing grace.”
Deborah W. (Mel/Phleg): “For me, growth is learning to forgive faster and love deeper.”
๐ Practice Scenario:
Prompt: You realize your spiritual growth has been mostly private. How can you share it to strengthen others without boasting?
Michelle: “I’ll share lessons learned in small group and let God get the credit.”
Claudia: “I’ll encourage someone personally instead of keeping my encouragement inside.”
Tessie: “I’ll show gentleness in leadership moments where I’d normally be strict.”
Cindy: “I’ll model grace by admitting when I’m wrong.”
Deborah W.: “I’ll tell my testimony to remind others of God’s power.”
Pastor Arp’s Direction:
“Growth that stays hidden is incomplete—Christ grows us so we can help others grow.”
✨ FINAL THOUGHT – Pastor Arp’s Closing Reflection
Pastor Arp’s eyes scanned the circle one last time, the quiet in the room carrying a weight of reflection.
He leaned in slightly, voice low but steady:“Sisters, this chapter is more than instructions—it’s a living call to unity. Each Greek word we explored today paints a picture of a body that works together, not apart. Growth happens when we lean in, not when we pull away. We have to ask ourselves:
Am I really living worthy of my calling, or am I coasting in comfort?”
Heads nodded around the room—some slowly, in thought, others quickly, in agreement.
Debbie smiled faintly, “It’s like the Spirit is drawing us into the ‘we’ instead of just the ‘me.’”
Pastor Arp concluded,
“Let’s not just hear this truth. Let’s live it. Let’s carry these words into our homes, our friendships, and even into the moments when it’s easier to withdraw. The Spirit is ready to empower us—our part is to say yes.”
Growing Together in Christ
1. Revisiting the Call
Read Ephesians 4:15–16 again.
Ask yourself: “Am I helping the body grow—or just growing in isolation?”
Share one specific way you can intentionally contribute to the growth of someone else in your church family this week.
2. Deep Dive into the Greek Words
Reflect on the five Greek words we explored today. Choose the one that spoke to your heart the most and answer:
Why do I think the Spirit drew my attention to this word?
How would my relationships change if I lived this out daily?
(Tip: Be honest about the challenges as well as the benefits.)
3. Responding to Real-Life Scenarios
From the discussion, think about the scenario that caught your attention most.
What about it stood out to me—was it the person’s humility, patience, or courage to speak truth in love?
How could I apply something similar in my own life this week?
(If it challenged you, explain why.)
4. Temperament Reflection Prompt
Think about your natural way of interacting in the body of Christ (e.g., quick to speak, slow to act, quietly observing, carefully planning).
How does this tendency help the body?
How might it unintentionally hold the body back?
Share one adjustment you’ll pray about making this week.
Take Time to Pray...
Close your reflection time by praying:
Thank God for placing you in the body of Christ.
Ask Him to reveal specific ways to build up others.
Invite the Holy Spirit to transform your motives and actions so they match the unity and love described in Ephesians 4.
Continue to walk worthy of your calling—and remember, you are loved to love. ๐
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Good Morning, my Sisters,
ReplyDeleteI truly enjoyed the M and P parts of the study. I hope you did too.
I decided to go VERY deep and answered all the questions,
but I’ll share just one of my responses.
Deep Dive into the Greek Words
The word that resonated most with me was Worthy (Axion). I believe the Spirit drew my attention to this word to remind me of the weight and importance of my calling—it is not to be taken lightly.
In my extra reading on Ephesians yesterday, I highlighted this from the Bible Knowledge Commentary:
“The word ‘worthy’ (axiลs) means ‘equal weight’; one’s calling and conduct should be in balance.”
From the class discussion, I also noted:
“To walk worthy means to live a life that is in balance with the high calling God has placed on us—not one that contradicts or cheapens it.”
Pastor Arp put it clearly:
“This isn’t a performance, sisters—it’s about integrity. Does your walk carry the weight of your calling?”
Gale’s reflection also stayed with me:
“That balance challenges me. I tend to push forward in my strengths, but I’m learning that character has to match calling.”
If I lived this out daily, my relationships would change because my conduct would align with my calling. I would treat others consistently with the Word of God.
Lord, help my calling to balance with my conduct.
A wonderful day to everyone. I look forward to reading your responses later.
This is Deep Sister Penny. I love what your say here.."I tend to push forward in my strengths, but I’m learning that character has to match calling.” This is eye opening. It's not about what you say or do, but it's how we live.....
DeleteThanks again for sharing these daily nuggets
Does your walk carry the WEIGHT of your calling- that's such a profound statment- one that goes down deeply like choice morsels lol. Thank you for sharing your reflection as well
DeleteThank you for sharing sister Gale
DeleteI am encouraged to hear you say I would consistently treat others with the word of God.
DeleteThanks for sharing Sis Penny.
Sister Penny you said "to remind me of the weight and importance of my calling..." This is a great reminder and of great importance, I pray that God will continue to place allow his spirit, people and situation in your life as a positive reminder to hold you accountable to this great importance. Blessings
DeleteGood Morning Ladies.
ReplyDelete๐๐ผ Go Deep Questions
Thursday August 14.
Growing Together in Christ
4. Temperament Reflection Prompt
Think about your natural way of interacting in the body of Christ (e.g., quick to speak, slow to act, quietly observing, carefully planning).
How does this tendency help the body?
I remember being in a meeting a while ago, when someone said, “We don’t have to answer questions, because Debbie is here.”
To be honest, a bit of pride rose up in me. I laughed, but quickly responded, “No, everyone can answer.”
Given my natural love for sharing and speaking, I had to realize that others also have a lot to say—sometimes even more than I do. So I began intentionally stepping back and giving others the space to share. (Not always easy! ๐คฃ) But this choice has helped me listen more attentively—without interrupting and without judging.
How might it unintentionally hold the body back?
If I operate from pride instead of humility, I can unknowingly hinder what God wants to do through His Church. The body of Christ was never meant to revolve around one voice, it was created to function as one body with many members, each part playing its God-given role. When I dominate the conversation or direction, I forget that ministry is not a one-man / woman show but a shared calling. My role is not only to serve but also to make room for others to step into their gifts.
One adjustment I’ll pray about making this week:
To listen more and resist the urge to speak in every conversation. I want God to transform this area in me—so I’m not always quick to respond, but willing to wait and hear.
My focus verse:
"Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." — James 1:19 (NIV)
Have a Great day
Good Morning Ladies
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Thursday August 14, 2025
Topic: Growing Together In Christ
Responding to Real-Life Scenarios From the discussion, think about the scenario that caught your attention most.
What about it stood out to me—was it the person’s humility, patience, or courage to speak truth in love?
How could I apply something similar in my own life this week? (If it challenged you, explain why
๐ Practice Scenario:
Prompt: You see a sister making a repeated choice that’s damaging her witness. How do you speak the truth in love without alienating her?
This scenario stood out to me because all of these various positive methods can be used to address the same situation.
Debra: “I’ll speak privately and start with what I appreciate about her, then address the concern clearly.”
Glenda: “I’ll wait until my tone is right—then speak directly but gently.”
Alison: “I’ll pray first for courage, then frame it as concern for her walk with Christ.”
Trudy: “I’ll say something now instead of assuming someone else will.”
Alynthia: “I’ll remind myself my motive is love, not winning an argument.”
This week I will try to apply a few of these responses to help someone. Usually, when I encounter situation like these I would leave people to themselves or say very little to them because I know I can come across very forceful when I try to correct. After reading these scenario I will do my best apply “Debra’s” advise.
Pastor Arp’s Direction: (very profound)
“Truth spoken in love heals—truth without love wounds, and love without truth withholds healing.”
Umm .. Debbie, I see that this morning in our family gathering this morning .. you were giving us a chance to speak. Usually you dominate the session. LOL
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DeleteLOL live in action
DeleteThank you for sharing deeply sis Debra, I agree sometimes the easist thing to do is to leave the individuals to their own self but this is indeed love in action when you are able to pull someone aside and speak the truth in love, defintely challenging
DeleteSis Debbie thanks for sharing, I too am one that is always thankful you are present in social situations as it takes away the mental weight of having to present my thoughts but as you shared so eloquently the importance of giving eveyone an opportunity I think I am more mindful of that now BUT you can always take the first one lol
DeleteDebra, this from Pastor ARP is truly profound: “Truth spoken in love heals—truth without love wounds, and love without truth withholds healing.”
DeleteThose are truly words to live by.
Thanks Jazzy, ๐๐
DeleteSister Debbie I like post.. the body of Christ was never me meant to function on one voice , this is absolutely correct , so many persons have things to share but are unable to do so . So thanks for sharing
DeleteWell said Sis Debbie, Thanks for sharing.
DeleteSister Debbie,
DeleteI am so proud of you, it's good that you know who you are but at the same time take a step back and watch others share. I believe you are purposely training yourself to be humble, it's an admirable trait. Keep on maturing
Good morning to everyone
ReplyDeleteMelancholic
August 14th
๐ Greek Word: Anechomai
The meaning of this word caught my attention amd the scenerio in which it was used .. in all things I must be patient with one another even when things seems challenging , sometimes we tend to lack understanding with others , but it’s important to move in love , there’s a saying kill them with kindness and in itself , changes things ..
How would my relationship change
Hmmmm everyday experiences must change , when you change the dynamics of how things are done , you see a different response , someone said to me recently if something is not working one way , go the opposite direction, and that changed a lot of things ..
Scenerio number 3 in the practice session caught my attention , I especially like sister Glenda response “Glenda: “Before I speak, I’ll ask—will this comment seal the crack, or widen it?”
It’s important to note when to put a sock in it , there are just some things that are better left unsaid , instead of trying to prove a point just stay quiet , speaking out of turn can truly damage the conversation or even the person based on the content .
How could I apply something similar in my own life this week?
Being humble is a beautiful thing , when others approach you and they sense that calmness about you , they themselves Humble ..
A lady came to the restaurant about a week ago , said she was hungry , but didn’t eat chicken , it was already late but I offered to make her some fry bakes with some Saltfish souse , she agreed , this was a lasting effect for her , and it wasn’t even about the money , I just wanted her to get something to eat because she was hungry , she inturned told someone of what I did and they commended me , those small acts of kindness make it count .. so I will continue to apply being humble in my daily walk .
Bless day everyone .. ๐บ
Amen sister
DeleteSuch am amazing story of demonstarting grace and patience and walking in God's love sis Alanda, Thank you for sharing. I really like that response as well - will it seal the crack or widen the gap- makes us be mindful of our words and interactions with others which you demonstarted so nicely with the lady at the restaurant
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you, Jazzy.
DeleteGreat testimony Sis Alanda, I like the part where you said not for the money, just wanted to give her something to eat.
DeleteThanks for sharing.
Great testimony sister Alanda, I like when you said it's not about the money but it was just that I wanted to give her something to eat, stay humble.
DeleteSister Alanda, These small acts of kindness do go a long way. That lady will never forget that. Thanks for sharing....
ReplyDelete"It’s important to note when to put a sock in it"
That's for sure. I will remember it for the next time.๐
Good Morning
ReplyDeleteEverytime I think WOW this is so creative, it even gets better, I first of all want to commend the creativity in this piece - Brilliant
So much thought provoking reflections - today I chose to share from Temperament Reflection Prompt
Think about your natural way of interacting in the body of Christ (e.g., quick to speak, slow to act, quietly observing, carefully planning).
My natural tendency is to quietly observe,avoid and isolate so not much way of interacting much with others, Since starting the Ephesians Study I have been deeply reflecting ( Mel over here) on the why I tend to be very surface with others especially within the church body and I am still wrestling with the idea. I tend to find myself at a crossroad presently with the spirit revealing the deep why but seeing if I am going to look back or continue as I am
How does this tendency help the body?
I can't imagine it's helping the body much - Pator ARP asked are we coasting in comfort and I think I am
How might it unintentionally hold the body back?
I think of all the wonderful ideas or feedback or thoughts that I may have had the opportunity to share with others or and I held on to it or kept it, withholding of yourself from others does not' only impact others but yourself deeply as well as it stunts your growth.
Share one adjustment you’ll pray about making this week.
One adjustment that I will be praying for is being more of my authentic self and not being afraid or worried of the criticism but to be more open to share of myself with others
Happy Friday Jr
Jazzy, thank you for being so open.
DeleteOne of the ways I see real change and transformation happening is when we can honestly identify where we are right now and what needs to be done. You’ve shared where you are presently, so from this point forward, it’s only upward bound for you.
You said, “I think of all the wonderful ideas or feedback or thoughts that I may have had the opportunity to share with others, and I held on to it or kept it. Withholding of yourself from others does not only impact others but yourself deeply as well, as it stunts your growth.”
I’m so glad you’ve recognized this—now I can’t wait to hear all your wonderful inputs. ๐
By the way, I love how you took the time to encourage everyone first before posting. That’s truly commendable.❤️
Good morning my dear sisters
DeleteDeep dive into Greek word
Speaking the Truth in Love
Greek word Aletheuo stood out to me
To truth it; to live out truth in speech and action.
I love what Pastor says “ truth is not hammer, it’s a scalpel. Use it with precision- and love.”
“Truth spoken in love heals-truth without love wounds, and love without truth withholds healing.”
I am learning to speak the truth in a loving way. I realize this is helping my spiritual growth and I am showing that I am maturing in Christ. I recognize that truth and love are not exclusive, but must be practiced together.
I’m now trying to communicate honestly, with a spirit of care, compassion and concern for others.
Ephesians 4:15 calls for balanced. Truth is spoken with love and love is expressed with truth.
Blessings to you
Sister Jesmyn indeed! Creativity at its best .. I always like reading your post , th way you write and your choice words , and yes please take the time to share with Others that’s important .
DeleteSis Jesmyn I agree with sis Alanda, I always like reading your post.
DeleteThanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing Sis Maria, I like what you said You recognize truth and love are not exclusive, but must be practiced together.
DeleteSister Jesmyn,
DeleteI like this, " being more of my authentic self and not being afraid or worried of the criticism..." This is truly powerful, be your beautiful self, God has made you unique, others will benefit from your uniqueness. Never downplay who you are because of what others might say. Respectfully be yourself.
Choleric/Melancholic
ReplyDeleteGreek Word: Axios by
Meaning: Properly balanced, having equal weight.
Why do I think the Spirit drew my attention to this word?
๐ฅThis word represents being ready for anything. To be properly balanced in my mind is being firmly grounded, not easily moved. Having equal weight means I can move forward without being easily shaken. Tubulance might affect my weight but I can quickly maneuver because of the equal weight on both sides. In my mind eyes this is of great importance. Sometimes I see myself off balance in my speech at times, after the tubulance of a situation. If I can have proper proportions my speech would have enough salt, enough fear of God , enough self awareness in that very moment. I pray to arrive at this place of worthiness more frequently in my life.
How would my relationships change if I lived this out daily?
๐ฅIt will change the dynamics of my speech, it will help me keep a much calmer spirit in the space of a situation. I believe having proper proportions and weight will help me understand what the spirit of God desires off me, how He wants me to handle a situation, when to leave a situation alone, I believe this spiritual awakening will cause me to mature in my relationship with God and cause a trajectory of changes, I hope for that kind of change.
Love you all with the love that God has shown me.
You said it best, I pray that God will give you the change you so desire in that area.
DeleteThanks for sharing honestly.
Good morning, everyone!
ReplyDeleteI’ve really enjoyed the M and P study session.
Deep Dive into the Greek Words
The one that spoke most to my heart was - Anechomai
Meaning: To endure patiently; to hold oneself up; to put up with.
It’s not just tolerating—it’s staying with someone in love, even in difficulty.
The Spirit drew my attention to Anechomai because I’ve often had the tendency to pull away emotionally, even while still present. This word reminds me that love doesn’t just stay, it patiently endures.
Living this out daily has already begun to transform my relationships. I’m no longer just tolerating people; I’m learning to show love by patiently enduring with them—something that used to be a challenge for me.
Recently, a misunderstanding at work tested this. A coworker became defensive over a life insurance issue, and the old me would have shut down and walked away. Instead, I chose to stay calm, go through the details with him, and ignore the frustration in his tone. In the end, the situation was resolved, and he thanked me for my patience and care.
Theresa’s reflection spoke directly to me “I realized I can stay physically—but emotionally, I leave. The Spirit’s working on that.”
After Pastor Arp’s study session, I realized Anechomai is more than a word—it’s a way of loving people the way Christ loves me: with patience, endurance, and grace.
Have a great day!
Good morning everyone
DeleteHappy Thursday
Alison
Deep drive into the word
One of the Greek word which stood out to me is auxano meaning to increase or become grater.
As I ponder on this word, is more the holy spirit speaks to me.
I ask myself so many questions.
Here are my thoughts
The question
Why do I think the spirit drew my attention to this word
Answer
I like what sis Michelle says in her reflection, this free me, growth isn't compassion, it's transformation.
Her words stood out to me, I believe going through Trans formation
Is like going to rehabilitation. I have to get rid of of the old me to become grater in christ, I have to decrease for Christ to increase. Therefore I have to constantly following these spiritual discipline so I can continue to become grater in my Christian walk with Christ. Also become like him in my character and my behavior.
Here as follows
I believe the holy spirit wants me to to totally surrender to him, he wants me to let go of my own desire and focus on his will for my life
Secondly he wants me to be an overcomer of my sins and others, this reflecting the character of christ in my action
Thirdly he wants me to put him first, seeking his guidance and direction in all Spects of my life.
Second question
How would my relationship change,if I live this out daily
Answer
I will see individuals for who they are.
Respect their temperament
Listen to th more
Have patience with them
Love the even more with big smile
Finally with the help of christ and my obedience in the word of God I will likely experience a more profound transformative relationship with my colleagues, family and friends
This maturity will help me reflect my ability to handle conflict, communicate with honesty and grace.
Have a bless day everyone
Peace
Blessing upon you wisdomseekers
That's wonderful to hear how you were able to help and exercise patient.
DeleteThanks for sharing Sis Cindy.
Sis Alison, thanks for sharing. You are right the Holy Spirit wants us to put him first in our daily lives.
DeleteSister Cindy, I love how you remain calm in a heated situation, it takes a lot to accomplish such a task, I pray that you would continue on that path.
DeleteHello everyone !
ReplyDeleteBearing with one another in love” – Ephesians 4:2
๐ Greek Word: Anechomai
Meaning: To endure patiently; to hold oneself up; to put up with.
Why do I think the Spirit drew my attention to this word?
The Spirit drew my attention to this word because sometimes i can be a bit impatient. He wants me to be more tolerant,patient, show more grace, not be frustrated and pull away.
How would my relationships change if I lived this out daily?
Instead of pulling away I will be able to tolerate,be more patient, show grace especially when people act in ways I don't appreciate and stand by others maintaining unity In love.
"It’s not just tolerating—it’s staying with someone in love, even in difficulty".
Have a great day
Sis T. Thanks for sharing, this is encouraging.
DeleteSister Theresa , patience is a great virtue, continue to practice tolerance.
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Deep Dive into the Greek Words
I must begin by saying that this study was prepared by the author/s with passion, not for the author but more so, for us the recepients. It was indeed unconventional, rich, thought provoking and yet practical. I believe that this study was specific and have achieved its purpose. Oh what an experience, boy, how much I needed this.... I really learned quite a lot from this e-study of Epesians
Thank you Pastor Arp & Lady Gale P.
3️⃣ “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit” – Ephesians 4:3
This Meaning and Prompt study of Ephesians 4 has been insightful, thought provoking and very interesting. And as I examined the Greek Words and reflected on their meaning, the scenarios shared, along with pastor Arp's directions given after each quoted scripture, I choose to focus today on : Spoudazล tฤrein
Meaning: To labor earnestly to guard or protect.
Unity is Spirit-given; we must guard it.
I think the Spirit drew my attention to this phrase because it speaks to the very core of my nature. I choose the reflection of- Glenda (Mel/Chol): “My words can either seal unity or split it. That’s sobering.”
You see, as a Mel/Chol, I have the tendancy to be direct and I speak as I see things, and although I mean well but, sometime my words may come across very harsh, because I am not always cautious or mindful about what my words can do. Although my reverse side allows me to think deep and reflect at times, it does not always dominate.
I learned that “Unity is fragile, and I carry a weapon—or a tool—in my temperament. Therefore I have the choide to protect unity or pierce it." by Pas. Arp. I know now that building up God's kingdom requires unity and purpose; God wants me to work together with others in unity. Havng discipline and being intentional and focused. I learn also that must first be united with Christ and allow His Holy Spirit to lead, protect and guide my thoughts, words and actions.
I am also reminded of Psalm 127:1 "Unless the LORD builds the house, the builders labor in vain"
So now, I purpose in my heart that before I speak, I will ask myself the question—"will this comment seal the crack, or widen it?” This Scripture verse teaches me to trust God totally for everything and in everything. It also tells me I must put him first and allow His works to be established in my life.
As I close, I leave this quote;
“Unity is guarded one choice at a time—by turning gossip into grace and criticism into prayer.”-by Pastor Arp.
Have a blessed day everyone.
Sister Glenda, unity is indeed fragile. "I know now that building up God's kingdom requires unity and purpose;" such a purposeful statement, keep on building up with a Christ driven purpose.
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Ephesians 4
Responding to Real-Life Scenarios:
The scenario that caught my attention most:
You notice a few sisters in your group exchanging negative comments about another leader. What do you do to guard unity?
I would guard unity by redirecting the conversation towards godly response. I will say the best thing to do is go directly to the leader in humility and find out what you are discussing instead of speaking behind their back. It is the proper way to address a situation face to face to kill the spreading of false information. And remember what you don’t like for yourselves you should not like it for others.
I love the way Jasmyn said it “If It’s in my hearing, I’ll speak up kindly and remind them of our shared mission.” We are building up not tearing down.
This is something I am focusing on doing, to speak up when I hear others saying negative thing of a leader or anyone.
The way I could apply something similar in my own life this week is to be mindful of the conversation am having look out for the twist, because gossip could come in a very subtle way. And don’t join in gossip, praying that our hearts would be led by God’s truth and love.
I agree with Pastor Arp’s. “Unity is guarded one choice at a time by turning gossip into grace and criticism into prayer.”
Have a wonderful day.
Hello ladies!
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful study on Ephesians 4. This discussion really challenged me.
The Greek word that spoke most to my heart was: Aletheuล;
Meaning: To truth it; to live out truth in speech and action.
I KNOW the Spirit drew my attention to this word because I am aware of a situation that needs me to ‘speak truth to it’. When I became aware of the situation, my first thought was, well, the person didn’t say anything to me, so I’m not going to say anything to them - no need to ruffle feathers, as they say. However, as I read about Aletheuล, I realize I shouldn’t “avoid hard truth because I don’t want to hurt feelings” because “silence in the name of love can be just as damaging as harsh truth.” Those two points really hit home to me. Although I like to maintain peace, remaining silent is not helpful.
This week I am going to ask the Holy Spirit for strength and courage to speak truth in love so that I can intentionally contribute to the growth of someone else. Like the scenario suggested, "I’ll pray first for courage, then frame it as concern for her walk with Christ.”
Even if others aren’t saying anything, I can’t use that as an excuse to not speak the truth in love. The quote “Truth spoken in love heals—truth without love wounds, and love without truth withholds healing.” If I claim to love others, I need to remember that love without truth withholds healing. By God’s grace and strength, I am going to speak out in truth! (pray for me!)
“Ladies, I am so blessed by the depth, honesty, and heart in each of your reflections today. You didn’t just share words—you shared pieces of your journey, your growth, and your willingness to let God’s Word shape you. From patience in conversations, to speaking truth in love, to guarding unity, every post was a testimony of how the Spirit is working among us. Wisdom Seekers, you are living proof that when we walk worthy of our calling, God uses even our small steps to bring big transformation. Keep pressing forward—together, we’re growing stronger in Christ.
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Good evening!
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Growing together in christ.
Revisiting the call
Ephesians 4 : 15-16
4 Temperament reflection prompt:
Think about your natural way of interacting in the body of Christ ( eg; quick to speak, slow to act, quietly observing, carefully planning).
My natural way of being, is to keep the peace at all cost. l would not speak up
or do anything that might cause conflict.
How does this tendency help the body?
This tendency will not help the body in any way, it would not create healing, or bring hope because l am not speaking up in times when I should.
How might it unintentionally hold the body back?
By staying silent, it may appear as if I am in support of bad behaviour, even though deep down I know it's wrong. When in reality, l disapprove, but prefer to stay silent in order to not ruffle any feathers.
Share one adjustment you'll pray about this week.
This week, I will pray for the courage to speak with boldness through the Holy Spirit's leading.
Have a great evening everyone!
Deborah
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EPHESIANS 4 WAS VERY AMAIZING TO ME:
AM HAPPY TO JOIN MY VOICE WITH ALL MY WONDERFUL SISTERS TO CONFIRM THAT.
GREEK WORD: ANECHOMAI:
Meaning:to endure patiently,to hold myself up,to put up with.
PRACTICE
I'll keep my heart present not just my body and ask the Holy Spirit to help me stay engaged..
Thank you pastor Arp for that great encouragement It means staying presant in love even others are difficult.
I believe the Spirit draw me to this word because very often I will tend to isolTe and pull myself away from fifficult and different people.
That practice was not nice because i wss loved to love.
During this journey i was face with some challenges .I must say Eph 4 has help me alot together with the senarios.Just to name a few that stayed with me.
Maria said: guarding unity is having hard conversation
Glenda: I' wait till the tone is right
AnneA: i cant keep avoiding awkward conversations.
Cindy : growing up into Christ means letting go of perfectionism and many more
Was of great help.
Many mote to state but i will like tocut short because of time
This week i will apply and walk in the new Deborah mode
Ephesian 4:22-24 thath stayed with me.
Trusting in the process:
Throw of the old sinful nature and your former ways of life which is currupted by lust and deception. Instead let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitude .Put on your new nature created to be like God Truly righteous and Holy .
Plesant night be bless and be a blessing.
Thank you F L for a job well done you thank you for the push you have been my influence together with M.O G. And the rest of the sisters.its was a blessing reading everyone post.❤๐
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