6.26.2025

June 26 -🌾 Temperament Transformation Quiz – Proverbs 26


👋🏽 Welcome!

Proverbs 26 is a vivid chapter filled with wisdom about how foolishness shows up in our words, attitudes, and responses. It contrasts wise and foolish behavior and gives us powerful insight into how we engage with others—especially in moments of conflict, correction, or temptation to gossip.

This quiz is designed to help you reflect on your own growth through the lens of your primary temperament and how it is being transformed by wisdom from God's Word.


📜 Proverbs 26:4–5

“Do not answer a fool according to his folly… Answer a fool according to his folly…”

1. How are you handling conflict or foolish arguments?

🟥 Choleric

  • I no longer feel the need to win every debate.

  • I ask the Holy Spirit when to speak and when to walk away.

  • I resist fuelling foolishness with more fire.

  • I'm learning to respond with discernment instead of domination.

🟦 Melancholic

  • I don’t rehearse arguments in my mind anymore.

  • I’ve stopped correcting people just to be “right.”

  • I trust God to vindicate me, not my intellect.

  • I'm learning to step out of silent judgment and into Spirit-led peace.

🟨 Sanguine

  • I resist jumping into drama or sarcasm for attention.

  • I stay grounded even when conversations turn chaotic.

  • I’m learning the power of wise silence.

  • I'm learning to value meaningful dialogue over being liked.

🟩 Phlegmatic

  • I speak up when wisdom is needed instead of avoiding conflict.

  • I now recognize when silence enables foolishness.

  • I’m more willing to have uncomfortable but necessary conversations.

  • I'm learning to stand firm in love instead of hiding behind peacekeeping.


📜 Proverbs 26:11

“As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly.”

2. How are you breaking free from repeated mistakes or destructive patterns?

🟥 Choleric

  • I stop and seek counsel before charging ahead.

  • I’ve acknowledged where pride made me repeat old mistakes.

  • I now reflect before reacting.

  • I'm learning to surrender control to avoid familiar downfalls.

🟦 Melancholic

  • I recognize when my self-criticism becomes a cycle.

  • I bring my patterns into the light instead of hiding in shame.

  • I’ve surrendered my perfectionism for grace-based growth.

  • I'm learning to let go of overthinking and walk by faith.

🟨 Sanguine

  • I don’t ignore red flags just because I want fun.

  • I’ve replaced impulse with prayerful decisions.

  • I now recognize when I’m escaping instead of facing.

  • I'm learning to choose discipline over temporary pleasure.

🟩 Phlegmatic

  • I no longer stay stuck in passivity.

  • I take responsibility instead of blaming circumstances.

  • I now actively seek change, not just wish for it.

  • I'm learning to move with intention, not just comfort.


📜 Proverbs 26:20–21

“Without wood a fire goes out; without gossip a quarrel dies down…”

3. How are you stewarding your words in tension or gossip?

🟥 Choleric

  • I don’t escalate tension just to prove a point.

  • I’ve learned that silence can be powerful.

  • I now use my influence to calm, not stir.

  • I'm learning to speak truth in love, not in dominance.

🟦 Melancholic

  • I stop rehearsing or retelling negative stories.

  • I let go of emotional fuel and seek peace.

  • I choose grace over critical observation.

  • I'm learning to release resentment before it becomes conversation.

🟨 Sanguine

  • I no longer spread what I haven’t verified.

  • I use my words to build up, not entertain at others’ expense.

  • I resist the urge to be “in the know.”

  • I'm learning to speak with depth, not just delight.

🟩 Phlegmatic

  • I speak peace instead of just avoiding problems.

  • I help diffuse conflict by being present and wise.

  • I’ve stopped avoiding gossip and now actively shut it down.

  • I'm learning to steward words as tools of healing, not silence.


📜 Proverbs 26:12

“Do you see a person wise in their own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for them.”

4. How are you growing in humility and openness to correction?

🟥 Choleric

  • I invite feedback before making decisions.

  • I’ve let go of the need to always be the expert.

  • I now ask questions before giving solutions.

  • I'm learning to value being transformed over being impressive.

🟦 Melancholic

  • I’m open to correction without taking it as a personal attack.

  • I don’t assume I see everything perfectly.

  • I invite others to speak into my blind spots.

  • I'm learning to welcome grace when I'm not "right."

🟨 Sanguine

  • I’ve slowed down to actually receive instruction.

  • I’m no longer deflecting correction with jokes.

  • I listen without needing to explain myself right away.

  • I'm learning to be still enough to grow deeper.

🟩 Phlegmatic

  • I speak up to ask for help or advice when needed.

  • I no longer assume avoiding failure equals wisdom.

  • I’m learning that humility means teachability, not invisibility.

  • I'm learning to receive correction without retreating inward.


🗣️ Time to Share: Share Your Responses in the Comments Section

Take a moment to reflect:

  • Which answers reflect where you're at right now and who you're becoming on your journey?

36 comments:

  1. 🌟 Good Day, Everyone!
    Just in case you don’t return to the blog in the evenings, I wanted to take a moment to say how truly uplifting and encouraging your conversations have been. Your willingness to share from the heart and engage with one another is such a beautiful reflection of Proverbs 27:17 — “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Thank you for contributing to this space with such authenticity. Continue to pray for each other.

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  2. Hola Hermanas!

    📝 Here are the answers that reflect where I’m at right now and who I’m becoming on this journey:

    I'm learning to respond with discernment instead of domination.
    I'm learning to surrender control to avoid familiar downfalls.
    I'm learning to speak truth in love, not in dominance.
    I invite feedback before making decisions.

    This journey, although tough at times, is a powerful reminder of what God can do when we fully yield to Him. His transformative grace is real and active. So stay encouraged, and stay committed. Let's continue to invest in our spiritual development—it’s worth everything.

    💛 With gratitude and hope for a transformed life.

    A great day to all!

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    1. Thank you, Sister Penny.
      We’re all in the process of preparing the meals of our lives—and one day, we’ll sit down and enjoy the feast. Yes, it’s hard work right now, but as we stay faithful, we’ll begin to see the difference. The fruit of a transformed life will soon speak for itself.

      “And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9

      Keep going, Sister. The harvest is coming! 😊❤️

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    2. Amen Sister Gale!

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  3. 1.I resist fuelling foolishness with more fire.
    2.I'm learning to surrender control to avoid familiar downfalls.
    3.I’ve learned that silence can be powerful
    4.I invite feedback before making decisions

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    1. Good morning to everyone
      Proverbs 26
      Melancholic/ Phlegmatic 💙
      Temperament Transformation Quiz

      Indeed Proverbs 26 talks about how foolish one can be if we don’t watch our words and at times who you think is not watching they truly are .
      * Which answers reflect where you're at right now and who you're becoming on your journey?

      * I'm learning to step out of silent judgment and into Spirit-led peace.
      * I bring my patterns into the light instead of hiding in shame.
      * I'm learning to speak truth in love, not in dominance.
      * I’m open to correction without taking it as a personal attack
      As I continue on this journey I can see how with the help of the Holy Spirit I am making some serious changes, there are times the conviction is so strong and all I can do at the moment is just say thank you Jesus , let’s keep on reading the word ladies it’s a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our paths .

      Blessed Thursday 🌺

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    2. Sister Alanda, Good Morning.
      I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes it can feel scary, but I don’t believe God wants us to live in fear of Him. He’s such a Good, Good Father, always looking out for His children’s best interests. As I reflect on where I am now, I’m truly thankful for His pruning—it’s brought me to a better place. Thanks for sharing

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    3. Amen Sister Alanda. That kind of conviction is such a beautiful sign that the Holy Spirit is actively working in you. Sometimes all we can say is “Thank You, Jesus”—and that’s more than enough. Let’s keep pressing and stay rooted in the word together. Truly, His word is guiding our every step.

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  4. Good Morning My Wise Sisters
    June 26
    Proverbs 26
    Temperament Transformation Quiz

    These are my thoughtful answers.❤️

    I’m learning the power of wise silence.
    I'm learning to choose discipline over temporary pleasure.
    I use my words to build up, not entertain at others’ expense.
    I’m no longer deflecting corrections with jokes.

    As I read through these questions, I can see God's hand at work in my life.
    I’ve read and reread them, wanting to answer each one honestly and thoughtfully. Looking back, I can hardly believe some of the things I did—things I now recognize were done out of ignorance. Yet through it all, I clearly see the evidence of God’s grace and love gently transforming me, especially in the area of my temperament.

    Thank you, Sister Penny, for these soul-searching questions.
    They truly stirred something deep within me. Stay faithful—your labor is not in vain. You have some serious reward awaiting you in heaven.🙂

    Have a wonderful Day

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    1. Thanks for sharing sister Debbie , indeed he rewards the faithful and diligent .

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    2. Amen, Sister Debbie. I’ve also found myself reading and rereading, really sitting with the questions and reflecting. You’re so right—so much of what we did was out of pure ignorance. But thank God for His grace that covers us, teaches us, and continues transforming us.

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  5. AnonymousJune 26, 2025

    Deborsh

    SHALOM WS FAM:

    MEL/PHLEG

    PRO: 26

    HEAVENLY FATHER:
    As i face this day. ,help my thoughts to be on thimgs that are good and uplifting and my focus to be on you.May i be slow to speak and quick to listen .May i show the same grace to others that you show to me.May your love and compassion flow through me and may i be a source of encouragement to those around me today.In Jesus name. AMEN.
    MY FAM I did not post yesterday but i must vonfess that it was a nlessimg reafing the voversation of those who posted yesterday.
    Big thank to you My FL i appreciate you and proud to have you as my leader after God ,I admire you always lead by example the word said that the husband man must be the first partaker and sure you prove that.

    TEMPERAMENT TRANSFORMATION: QUIZ:PRO:26
    AS far as my growth on this journey am enjoying it plenty.
    I am taking pages out of the book of my faithful sisters of influence as you follow Christ.
    I am learing to step out of silent judgment and into Spirit-led peace.
    I'm learning to let ho of overthinking and walk by faith.
    I'm learning to release resentment before it become conversation.
    I dont assume I see everything perfectly.
    Love Uall deeply.
    CHAA......🤣❤

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    1. Amen sister Deborah

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    3. Amen to your prayer Sister Deborah!

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  6. Good morning ladies!

    Temperament Transformation Quiz – Proverbs 26

    Here are my answers that reflect where I am at right now and who I am becoming on this journey:

    I’ve stopped correcting people just to be “right.”
    I'm learning to let go of overthinking and walk by faith.
    I'm learning to release resentment before it becomes conversation.
    I’m open to correction without taking it as a personal attack.

    Lately, I’ve been learning that peace is more valuable than proving a point. I don’t always need to have the last word. I’m choosing to trust God, even when the path ahead isn’t fully clear. And I’ve found there’s so much freedom in letting things go early - before they take root in my heart. Growth is becoming more important to me than pride, and I’m grateful for how God is shaping me in this season.

    Blessed day all!

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  7. WOW! Sister Cindy, you just wrote a whole book here—this is so refreshing! Your words are rich and full of life. I’d love to take a few lines from what you wrote, if that’s okay. You are filled with wisdom, my sister. Thank you for pouring out like this. 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much, Sister Debbie. 🙏🏽 This is truly transformation at work. 😊 Please feel free to use any of the lines that spoke to you. I’m just grateful that God is giving me the courage to open up and pour out like this.

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    2. ❤️❤️

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  8. Good morning everyone , I am wishing you all a great day.
    PROVERBS 26
    MELANCHOLIC

    My answers:
    I am learning to step out of silent Judgement and into spirit -led peace.
    I am learning to let go of overthinking and walk by faith.
    I am starting to take every thought captive, and learning to stop rehearsing or retelling negative stories.
    I am open to correction, without taking it as a personal attack

    Enjoy the day.

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    1. AnonymousJune 26, 2025

      Enjoy your day as well sister Hazel

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  9. Good morning every one
    Proverbs chapter 26

    The answers reflect where I at right now are as follows
    I am learning to value meaningful dialogue over being liked

    I am learning to choose discipline over pleasure

    I am learning to speak with debths not just delight

    I am learning to be still enough to grow deeper

    Walking in this Christian pathway is a process. So as a result every day I am learning, I make errors, but I do not stay there I get back up, learn from them and try to be better with the help of God's grace.
    Let's all continue to prayer for for each other as we journey through this transformation.

    Have a bless day everyone

    Peace

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    1. AnonymousJune 26, 2025

      Amen sister Allison , don’t we all fall short , but because of his grace that is sufficient for us . Amen 🌺

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  10. Cass (Sang/Phleg)June 26, 2025

    Hello
    ✨ 1. I’m learning the power of wise silence.

    ✨ 2. I now recognize when I’m escaping instead of facing.

    ✨ 3. I'm learning to speak with depth, not just delight.

    ✨4. I'm learning to be still enough to grow deeper.


    Through this journey, I am finding myself going to God more to seek his counsel. I am thankful for this improvement. I am trusting him more and more .

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    1. AnonymousJune 26, 2025

      Going to God more I absolutely love this . Amen sister cassy 🌺

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  11. Greetings my fellow WS,
    Proverbs 26.

    Here are the answers that reflect where I’m at right now and who I’m becoming on this journey:

    🟦 Melancholic Temperament

    I'm learning to step out of silent judgment and into Spirit-led peace.
    I'm learning to let go of overthinking and walk by faith.
    I'm learning to release resentment before it becomes conversation.
    I'm learning to welcome grace when I'm not "right."

    This temperament journey is indeed a process, I am experiencing progress in my transformation that I never thought about before. Some days I experience setbacks and there are days when I achieve positive growth experiences.

    All in all, my aim and focus is to trust God totally, in every area of this transformation journey.

    Have a blessed day y'all!!

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    1. AnonymousJune 26, 2025

      Trusting god totally is the best thing sister Glenda .. 🌺

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  12. Hello Everyone.
    Mel /Cho
    Proverbs 26

    I am learning to step out of silent judgement and into Spirit -led peace.
    I recognize when my self-criticism becomes a cycle.
    I choose grace over critical observation.
    I don't assume i see everything perfectly

    Have a good evening

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  13. Howdy WS ,
    Happy Thursday ,
    Temperament Transformation Quiz – Proverbs 26
    *** Melancholic ***
    I'm learning to step out of silent judgment and into Spirit-led peace
    I'm learning to let go of overthinking and walk by faith
    I'm learning to release resentment before it becomes conversation
    I’m open to correction without taking it as a personal attack.
    I did not realize how much of an overthinker I was until this journey of transformation .
    I read this quote and I like it that Faith is a journey and growth takes time .I am truly grateful for the awareness and continue to seek & trust God's guidance for the small consistent steps towards breaking free from destructive patterns .
    Have a bless night Ladies ,Thank you for your insightful thoughts


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  14. Ann CallisteJune 26, 2025

    Night everyone phlegmatic/Melancholic
    Where I am right now and who I am becoming on this journey
    I speak up when wisdom is needed instead of avoiding conflict
    I now actively seek change not just wish for it
    I speak peace instead of just avoiding problems
    Im learning to receive correction without retreating in words
    I am learning to trust god in my everyday needs and always
    put him first
    But going through this transformation also helps me understand
    more about how to deal with other temperament on my everyday journey
    Have a blessed night

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  15. Maria /phlegmaticJune 26, 2025

    How are you handling conflict or foolish arguments?
    I’m learning to stand firm in love instead of hiding behind peacemaking

    How are you breaking free from repeated mistakes or destructive patterns?
    I’m learning to to move with intention, not just comfort

    How are you stewarding your words in intention or gossip?
    I am learning to steward words like tools of healing, not silence

    How are you growing in humility and openness to correction?
    I am learning that humility means teachability, not invisibility
    Blessings to all our wisdom seekers

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  16. Goodnight ladies!

    It’s great to read about the growth in each and every one of your lives! May God continue to transform us into the wise woman we were created to be.

    The answers reflect where I feel I am right now:
    * I'm learning to step out of silent judgment and into Spirit-led peace.
    * I'm learning to let go of overthinking and walk by faith.
    * I choose grace over critical observation.
    * I'm learning to welcome grace when I'm not "right."

    There were a few answer choices where I felt like, “wow, I wish I could pick that answer,” but I have to remind myself, this is a work in progress! By God’s grace, The following answers reflect who I’m becoming (with extra grace):
    * I don’t rehearse arguments in my mind anymore.
    * I recognize when my self-criticism becomes a cycle.
    * I’m open to correction without taking it as a personal attack.
    * I invite others to speak into my blind spots.

    This is a great journey, and I am so proud of everyone’s transformation. Let’s keep up the great work!

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  17. Hello wise women!
    phlegmatic
    1)How are you handling conflict or foolish arguments?
    I speak up when wisdom is needing instead of avoiding conflict
    2)how are you breaking free from repeated mistakes or destructive patterns?
    I no longer stay stuck in passivity.
    3) How are you stewarding your words in tension or gossip?
    I help diffuse conflict by being present and wise
    4)How are you growing in humility and openness to correction?
    I'm learning that humility means teachability not invisibility

    Have a good night ladies!

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  18. June 26 2025
    Mel/ Phleg
    Temperament Transformation Quiz - Proverbs 26
    I'm learning to step out of silent judgment and into spirit-led peace.
    I bring my patterns into the light instead of hiding in shame.
    I choose grace over critical observation.
    I am open to correction without taking it as a personal attack.

    Blessings.

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  19. Thanks for your contributions everyone. May we continue on this journey knowing that transformation is taking place daily. Good night all!

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June 27 -📘 Proverbs 27: Sharpening, Humility & True Friendship

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