🌿 Temperament Transformation Final Weekend Check-Ins
Welcome to the final leg of our June journey, sisters!
We've walked through 27 chapters of wisdom, reflection, and heart work—and now we’re entering the final three days together.
Today though Monday, we’ll reflect through the lens of our temperament types—Choleric, Melancholic, Sanguine, and Phlegmatic—as we explore the final chapters of Proverbs.
Each day includes one check-in question per temperament, drawn from the key theme of the chapter. These questions are not just for reflection but for sharing.
👉🏽 You’re invited to return to this blog on Sunday (June 29) and Monday (June 30) to read, reflect and respond.
Ask yourself your temperament’s question honestly, and share your response in the comments. Growth is richer in community.
FOR TODAY - SATURDAY
📖 Day 28 – Proverbs 28: Where Are You Being Bold or Hiding?
Proverbs 28 shines a light on courage, integrity, and the danger of trusting in ourselves over God. It urges us to be bold in righteousness, not in pride—and reminds us that real safety is found in walking uprightly, even when it’s uncomfortable.
This chapter asks us to look at where our temperament may cause us to hide, hold back, or push forward in the wrong spirit.
🙏🏽 Check-in Questions by Temperament:
🟠 Choleric:
Am I learning to lead with integrity and not just strength—even when it means slowing down or admitting I was wrong?
🔵 Melancholic:
Am I trusting God more than my fears when it comes to doing what’s right, even if I can’t control the outcome?
🟡 Sanguine:
Am I learning to stand for truth, even when it risks my popularity or comfort?
🟢 Phlegmatic:
Am I allowing God to stir me out of spiritual passivity into boldness when quiet obedience is no longer enough?
👉🏽 Take a moment to reflect and then share your answer on the blog TODAY.
Your insight could be just what another sister needs to hear.
FOR TOMORROW, GOD WILLING - SUNDAY
📖 Day 29 – Proverbs 29: How Are You Responding to Correction?
Proverbs 29 calls us to examine how we handle correction, leadership, and emotional restraint. Our temperaments are often exposed in how we react: Do we shut down? Defend? Laugh it off? Withdraw?
God uses wisdom and discipline to shape us. Let’s take an honest look at how we’ve been responding to the refining process.
🙏🏽 Check-in Questions by Temperament:
🟠 Choleric:
Am I accepting correction without defensiveness—and letting others speak into my life without needing to be in control?
🔵 Melancholic:
Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
🟡 Sanguine:
Am I becoming more willing to pause, reflect, and mature—even when it means facing uncomfortable truth?
🟢 Phlegmatic:
Am I stepping forward in discipline and responsibility—even when I'd rather stay in the background or avoid pressure?
👉🏽 Come back to the blog tomorrow (Monday, June 30) and post your response.
Each answer is part of our shared wisdom.
FOR MONDAY, GOD WILLING.
📖 Days 30 – Proverbs 30 & 31: What Kind of Woman Are You Becoming?
Proverbs 30 reveals the beauty of humility and the mystery of God's ways.
Proverbs 31 reveals the strength and grace of a woman who walks in wisdom—not perfection, but purpose.
Together, they ask us not to measure ourselves against others, but to ask:
What is God forming in me beneath my temperament?
🙏🏽 Check-in Questions by Temperament:
🟠 Choleric:
Am I learning to release control and lean into godly wisdom, trusting that quiet strength is still strength?
🔵 Melancholic:
Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything (or everyone) to be flawless first?
🟡 Sanguine:
Am I finding deeper joy in consistency, discipline, and wisdom—not just excitement and praise?
🟢 Phlegmatic:
Am I beginning to see that my gentleness is powerful—but only when I live it with purpose and courage?
This is more than the end of a month—it’s the beginning of deeper transformation.
Thank you ladies!
ReplyDeleteGood morning ladies
Proverbs 28: Where Are You Being Bold or Hiding?
Melancholic💙
Am I trusting God more than my fears when it comes to doing what’s right, even if I can’t
control the outcome?
🌺Over the past months I have made a conscious decision to trust God Inspite of not knowing the outcome , that means I had to choose in what I believe was right even if the outcome was negative , mind you fear crept up from time to time but there’s a beautiful scripture that always popped up in my head , he hasn’t given me a spirit of fear but of power love and a sound mind , 2nd Timothy 1:7 , that same spirit that allows me to sing, shout , cry when need be was allowing me to just put aside my fears helping me to be disciplined along the way , so as I am walking daily with him i have surrendered myself acknowledging that he is ultimately the one in charge and has my best interest at heart , one other thing that has helped me was reaching out to trusted friends when things seemed to be going off track , indeed there’s always a friend that sticks closer than a brother , I am encouraged by their strength daily and they faith in me has guided me along the way .
I am learning that choosing to trust God over my fears keeps me in alignment with his will and purpose for my life and In so doing I can experience his peace ..
Sister Gale as June comes to a close I must say the reflection questions is what really stood out to me , there are some I was able to identify right away while others I really had to search myself .
Thanks again and may God continue to give you the grace as you continue with us ladies ..
Have a blessed day ladies .🌺
Sister Alanda, the more I read your daily posts, the more I see how God is helping you navigate through the obstacles and roadblocks that come your way.
DeleteYou said, “I am learning that choosing to trust God over my fears keeps me in alignment with His will and purpose for my life, and in doing so, I can experience His peace.”
That right there, my sister — is growth. And it’s a beautiful thing to witness.
You are growing, and it’s evident. Keep at it. Don’t give up. God is doing something deep in you, and it will bear fruit in due season.❤️🙌🏼
Thanks for sharing your reflection and the scripture from 2 Timothy 1:7. As a melancholic, we have to remind ourselves daily that God did not give us a spirit of fear! Our heavenly Father is in control and He loves us dearly!
DeleteGood Morning Wisdom Seekers Sisters..
ReplyDeleteHappy Saturday
San/Cho
Questions by Temperament:
🟡 Sanguine Check-In Question:
Am I learning to stand for truth, even when it risks my popularity or comfort?
Yes, I am.
Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve been reflecting on what it really means to walk in the Spirit. It’s easy to make that sound mystical or disconnected from real life, but something the Lord has been teaching me is deeply practical:
The Spirit always agrees with Scripture.
That simple statement holds profound weight. The Spirit never leads me/ us contrary to the Word of God. He doesn’t confuse me/us or contradict what God has already revealed. Instead, He illuminates it — helping me/us understand, apply, and live it out in our everyday choices.
I’m learning that walking in the Spirit isn’t about waiting for goosebumps or emotional highs. It’s about cultivating sensitivity to His guidance as I read the Bible, as I respond to others, and especially as I stand on God’s truth, even when it’s unpopular or uncomfortable.
This week, I found myself in a conversation where someone was about to make a comment about another person. Just as they were about to speak, I stopped them and said, "Don’t say it." I did this for two reasons:
I didn’t want them to sin by speaking ill of someone.
I didn’t want to be drawn into the conversation and end up participating in gossip.
The person respected my request and didn’t continue.
That moment showed me how much God is transforming my life. A few years ago, I might have stayed silent or even joined in. Now, I’m learning to stand for what’s right—even if it costs me approval or future conversations. And that’s okay. If this person chooses not to bring such things to me again, it just means my boundaries are being respected.
Have A Wonderful Day 🙂
PS. Thank you Sister Penny for the Soul Searching Saturday!❤️🙏🏼
Thanks Sister Debbie and well said !
DeleteSomething about this caught my attention “I’m learning that walking in the Spirit isn’t about waiting for goosebumps or emotional highs.”
And it goes to show that only if we live by the word and do what it says not be like a man that looks at face and forget what he looks like , we have to be living the word daily, only so we will be able to know when to put a halt to certain things , i have found myself in similar situations and trust me I don’t entertain it all,
Thanks for sharing and have a blessed day ..🌺
Wonderful testimony! Continue to be 'Bold' and stand for truth! I like that your reasons for taking a stand wasn't just for yourself, but you were also safe guarding the other person from sinning by speaking ill of someone. That is truly an example of loving your neighbour as yourself.
DeleteGood morning every one
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I am learning to stand for the truth even when it risk my popularity or comfort
I have been there. I had lots of friends in my community and when I gave my heart to Christ the majority of them turn against me.
I stood my grounds, I stand up for Christ friends or no friends I stand.because I know who my redeemer lives.
God had bless me with better friends and up to day I have the friends God has place in my life..
Determination to achieve is my best friend.i know I will not find many other there to assist, it's a personally journey I have to follow. I am determined to stand for truth and righteousness.
I will have challenges along the way, but but I have to be brave, be bold ,be resilient, be fearless for the lord has not given me a spirit of fear but of love,power and of a sound mind.
So with this I am encouraged to stand for truth because I know my reward is huge at the end.
Have a bless day every one
Peace
Amen Sister Allison we share the same sentiment.. 🌺
DeleteAmen! Continue to stand for truth! Your best friend, determination to achieve, will help you achieve everything God has created you to achieve!
DeleteGood afternoon to all the ladies, I hope everyone is having is having a good day.
ReplyDeleteProverbs 28:
The verse that stood out to me .
VS 27: Those who give to the poor will lack nothing, but those who close their eye to them receive many curses.
MELANCHOLIC:
Question: Am I trusting God more than my fears when it comes to doing what is right even if i don't know the out come.
I am growing in that area of trusting God over my fears, although sometimes fear tries to step in. but when listen holy spirit i am able to overcome and do what is right, and leave the out come to God, who i know has me.
Great reflection! We have to continue to listen to the Holy Spirit and He will help us overcome our fears.
DeleteHello WS.
ReplyDeleteMel/Cho
Proverbs 28
Check- in Question
Am I trusting God more than my fears when it comes to doing what is right, even if I can't control the outcome?
I am conscious in not allowing fear to take over when i have to do something or in making decisions, even when fear tries to creep in, I speak to the situation and affirm myself. "Theresa you can do it just trust God and see Him at work". I am growing in relying and trusting in God even if I can't control the outcome.
Have a good night.
That is a very good mantra - trust God and see Him at work! Thanks for sharing!
Delete🟠 Choleric
ReplyDeleteAm I learning to lead with integrity and not just strength—even when it means slowing down or admitting I was wrong?
Yes, I am. I’ve learned—often the hard way—that relying on my own strength is ultimately detrimental. I must depend on God’s strength instead. Slowing down has been difficult for me, but since I cannot see what lies ahead, I’ve learned to go slowly when God says to—because He sees all. Admitting when I’m wrong is a sign of maturity, and I’ve seen real growth in that area too.
I thank God daily for His transformative work in my life—especially as we walk through this journey together.
Wishing everyone a good evening!
Great insight, ladies!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing so openly and from the heart. Don’t stop—keep on keeping on! Your growth is inspiring, and God is clearly at work. 💪✨
To those who will be posting later, we look forward to hearing from your.
Good night all!
Goodnight everyone! Congrats on making it thus far!!
ReplyDeleteAm I trusting God more than my fears when it comes to doing what’s right, even if I can’t control the outcome?
Yes! I am trusting God more than my fears because God is sovereign. It doesn't matter how scary things look around me, I just need to keep my eyes on God and trust Him wholeheartedly. As a melancholic, I have a tendency to want to know that things are going to work out and if I realize it might not, that's when fear creeps in. Similar to Peter walking on the water, when he was focused on Christ, he was able to do the impossible, but the moment he took his eyes off Christ, fear creeped in and he began to sink. As I continue on this transformation journey, I want to keep my focus on God and trust Him instead of my fears!
Hello Wisdom Seekers
ReplyDeleteTemperament Transformation Final Weekend Check-Ins
Day 28 – Proverbs 28: Where Are You Being Bold or Hiding?
Check-in Questions by Temperament:
Melancholic: Am I trusting God more than my fears when it comes to doing what’s right, even if I can’t control the outcome?
Now I can say yes, I am trusting God to take a stand and do what is right even though I do not have control over the outcome. I must say that it is not easy, but I have to tell myself that God is with, I have the Holy Spirit I can trust Him to work all things together for my Good.
Example:
I decided to take a few days off work, because I think I need some rest. I also know that I will not receive a pay cheque for those days I took off, but I am trusting God to provide. Before I would not even take vacation, but as I mature I realize the need for rest. For God has given us rest
I am learning to put my faith into action and trust God more than I have been doing.
Not just a superficial belief but intentionally praying about one thing and asking Him to guide me through the process and and wait on
Him.
Good night
Hello ladies!
ReplyDeletePhlegmatic
Day 28- proverbs 28:
Am I allowing God to stir me out of spiritual passivity in to boldness
when quiet obedience is no longer enough?
I would say sometime; There are times I would allow the Holy Spirit to lead
and I willing follow, and I am surprise at my boldness,
I am seeing small changes. I am committed to allow the Holy spirit
to continue His work in me.
Be bless my sisters!
Small changes are still changes Sister Anne. It is a sign of transformation. Thanks for sharing.
DeleteGood Morning Sisters
ReplyDeleteHappy Sunday
Proverbs 29:
How Are You Responding to Correction?
🟡 Sanguine:
Am I becoming more willing to pause, reflect, and mature—even when it means facing uncomfortable truth?
Lately, I’ve been falling in love with the person I’m becoming.🤗🤗🤗
On Friday, someone said something to me, and immediately, a question formed in my mind. a question that, if asked, could have led to misunderstanding or even conflict. I wanted clarity, but something in me said, “Don’t go there.” I felt the Holy Spirit nudge me gently, and I began to speak to myself: “Debbie, you don’t need to ask that. Hold your tongue.”
And I did.
As the evening drew near, I reflected on what had happened. I was so thankful. Not just for the peace that followed, but for the growth I saw in myself. The person never knew what I was thinking or how close I came to sparking tension. But I knew. And God knew.
This moment may not have involved facing a difficult truth, but it did involve choosing maturity over impulse. I paused. I reflected. I chose peace. And in that quiet choice, I saw evidence of God’s work in me.
Sometimes growth shows up in what doesn’t happen. In the arguments we avoid, the questions we don’t ask, the pride we lay down. These are the hidden victories of becoming more like Jesus.
Have A Blessed Day
Thanks for sharing your testimony. Impulsiveness is truly not a mark of maturity. Stay in the transformation oven - He is baking you nicely.
DeleteAmen! Thank You
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ReplyDeleteGood morning all!!
Day 29 – Proverbs 29: How Are You Responding to Correction?
🔵 Melancholic:
Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
I’ve been reflecting on this question: Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
As someone with a melancholic temperament, I tend to hold myself to very high standards. So when I’m corrected, my instinct is often to take it personally—almost as if it confirms that I’ve failed or fallen short. It can easily lead to overthinking, self-criticism, and shame.
But I’m learning to see correction differently. Rather than interpreting it as rejection or failure, I’m asking God to help me recognize it as His loving hand shaping me. As His Word reminds us, “the Lord disciplines those He loves” (Hebrews 12:6). That means correction is not something to fear or resent—it’s actually a reflection of His care.
It’s not always easy. My emotions don’t always agree at first. But I’m learning to pause, pray, and ask: ‘God, what are You showing me through this? How do You want me to grow?’ Slowly, I’m beginning to understand that correction isn’t a sign that I’m not enough—it’s evidence that He’s not finished with me yet.
This shift in perspective is helping me walk in humility instead of insecurity, and to trust God’s refining process rather than resist it. It’s a work in progress, but it’s also a journey of grace.
Have a wonderful Sunday!!
Thanks for sharing on a "shift in perspective". It is God's way and not our way that matters. Enjoy the process!
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DeleteSister Cindy, you wrote this very beautifully. I love what you say here, “That means correction is not something to fear or resent—it’s actually a reflection of His care” This is the evidence of someone that is growing with a keen sense of what God is doing in our lives whenever He disciplines us.
I don’t think it’s only melancholy people who often take corrections personally. It’s in our sinful nature to put up our defences. However, through the working of the Holy Spirit, we are getting it. And like you said, “I’m learning to pause, pray, and ask: ‘God, what are You showing me through this?”
May we all adapt this same attitude… Thanks for sharing
Good morning Ladies: Happy Sunday.
ReplyDeletePROVERBS 29:20. Do you see a man hasty who in his words? there is more hope for a fool than for him.
Melancholic:
Question: Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
Yes there is that part of me that wants things right and perfect, and when it is not i feel bad. Learning about my temperament, help me to see why I am like that and to understand I would not get all things right all the time so there is no need to fear or feelings of inadequacy, i will make mistakes, so i m growing in accepting correction as God's love for me, especially when it is from a trusted person, coming from a place of love. For Whom the lord loves he chasten[ETC]
Hebrews 26:6-7
Have a worshipping day today. God has been good to us.
Indeed Sister Hazel, we will not ghet all tings right all the time. We are growing and our Father knows that so yes, we should not fear or feel inadequate. Thanks for sharing.
DeleteMrs. James.
DeleteThanks for sharing. That’s okay—baby steps are still steps, and they show that growth has begun.
Every bit of progress counts, and God honors even the small beginnings. Keep going—you’re moving in the right direction!
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon to all
Proverbs 29
Melancholic/ Phlegmatic 💙🌺
Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
Absolutely!
This proverb speaks of this , Proverbs 3:11
My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction:
God deeply cares for me , if not the challenges that I go through daily wouldn’t be worth it ..
the constant chastisement helps me to stay away from sin and leads me to perfection. As pastor penny preached today God delights in the upright and those who walk blamelessly.
No one likes affliction, difficulties, or trouble. These are things you try to avoid as much as possible in life. But the Lord sends them in love, for He is able to use them to teach you better than peace and prosperity could ever teach you. Good times feel great, but they never made anyone better. Hard times feel bad, but they make you stronger and wiser.
So I am learning to take corrections as love ..
Have a blessed afternoon everyone .. 🌺
Sister Alanda, you answered by saying, “Absolutely!” Now that’s confidence right there—You go, girl! 🙂
DeleteAs much as we may try to avoid certain things, they will come. But remember, some things come not to break us, but to make us stronger.
What an answer: Absolutely! That is truly assurance of the work of God in your life. Hebrews 12:6 (NET) tells us that “For the Lord disciplines the one he loves and chastises every son he accepts.” Check out verse 10 also. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteHello WS,
ReplyDeleteI trust we had a great time of corporate worship today. Thank you Sister Debbie for bringing the word.
🟠 Choleric:
Am I accepting correction without defensiveness—and letting others speak into my life without needing to be in control?
The plight of a choleric! But thank God for His grace and patience. I can testify that I am accepting correction without defensiveness—and letting others speak into my life without needing to be in control. This is so wonderful to see how God is still transforming me after so many years. What a patient Father He is! I thank Him for the reckoning and realization He is be bringing to me daily. I truly embrace all that He is doing with great appreciation. I am at a point now that every move I make I am conscious of His presence and His leading.
A wonderful evening to all!
Sister Penny, thank you for sharing.
DeleteReading this reminded me of how much we also need to be patient with others—just as God is patient with we
When you said, “This is so wonderful to see how God is still transforming me after so many years. What a patient Father He is!”—that truly touched me. It’s a beautiful reminder that His work in us is ongoing, and His patience never runs out.
Yes, He truly is a patient God!
oh, You are very welcome.
Good night everyone
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Am I becoming more willing to pause,reflect and mature even when it means facing uncomfortable truth
Answer
Yes I am willing to pause reflect and mature even when it means facing uncomfortable truth.
I believe i have to do this, this help me to view my progress, and ask myself questions, in this way I can look at myself to see the area in which I can ask God for help ,and dircetionin which I can reach my true potential. Step by step I will get there.deternination is the key with the help of of my father
Have a bless night every one
Sleep well
Sister Alison…
DeleteThank you for sharing. You are so right—step by step, you will get there.
Yes, determination is key, especially with the help of our Heavenly Father. Keep pressing forward my sister, He’s walking with you every step of the way!
Hello wisdom seekers!
ReplyDeleteAm I stepping forward in discipline and responsibility even when I'd rather stay in the back ground or avoid pressure?
I am more aware of my temperament and the challenges that I face that will hinder my growth. Although I'd rather stay in the background; I realize that my life have a purpose ,and I
can no longer stay in the back ground, when the the Holy Spirit is urging me to step
forward .
Have a good night ladies!
Hi Wisdom Seekers,
ReplyDeleteDay 29 – Proverbs 29: How Are You Responding to Correction?
Check-in Questions by Temperament:
🔵 Melancholic: Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me?
Before now, this would be a tough question to answer. I say this because when I was corrected in the past I would get very defensive. At this point in time I can say yes, I am seeing correction as God’s care. Now that I have grown a little wiser in the Word of God. I have come to understand that God disciplines those He loves. Many passages in scripture alludes to that. So, going forward with the Holy Spirit’s help I will no longer see correction as a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy. But I will see correction as God’s loving care towards me.
Goodnight ladies! I hope you all had a great time in church.
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Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
I am starting to see correction as God's care for me. As we study Proverbs, I see that correction is a form of God's love and one of His ways of pruning me so I can become fruitful. In the past, I viewed correction as confirmation of my inadequacy and as a result, I feared correction. The melancholic standard is perfection, so to receive 'correction' meant I missed the mark of perfection. Studying about my temperament has opened my eyes to this area of growth and has led me to rely on the Holy Spirit to transform the way I view correction. I am starting to embrace correction as God's care for me!
Good Sunday Evening WS,
ReplyDeleteCheck-in Questions by Temperament
Melancholic:
Am I seeing correction as God’s care for me rather than a confirmation of my fears or inadequacy?
Yes ,I am learning to embraced correction as it strengthen my desire to learn and grow in the areas where i have the tendency to struggle the most. I am learning as i read through the proverbs daily ,pray & reflect that correction from God is motivated by his love for me and full of benefits.
His Grace is really sufficient for me and His Power is made Perfect in ALL my weaknesses So I continue to trust His Grace to transform my temperament to be
more like his .
Have a blessed Night ALL and
a great week ahead .
Good morning ladies 🌺
ReplyDeleteMelancholic/Phlegmatic💙
Proverbs 30&31
June 30th
What Kind of Woman Are You Becoming?
Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything (or everyone) to be flawless first?
Based on the reading
Yes I am recognizing my worth without needing everything or everyone to be flawless first .
I have learnt that if am not willing to accept myself for the way I am I cannot develop self worth , for me recognizing my worth I had to become my best friend literally recognizing the parts of my character that I love and appreciate it for myself , too many times I let my guard down and I really had to learn to accept me , In doing so I started to love myself without the need for external validation .
Typical example only night before I went out myself and hussy saw a lady that I know , and after not seeing me for so long she said “ you spreading like a rash “ after i greeted this lady so nicely .. so my response was “ That’s a good rash though because you know it have some rash than can spread and they get really bad right ? She looked at me and said yes ,” that’s a good rash “ saying this to say if I was the person I was before I would let that woman have it , but thank God for that still voice that lives inside me no one can is allowed to take away my joy or self worth , I am beautiful and wonderfully made , I am a wife of noble character , I am worth far more than rubies and my husband has full confidence In me .
So in closing I acknowledge that I am not perfect and that’s okay and am happy that am not seeking constant validation or relying on others to make me feel worthy . That’s the woman am becoming ..
Have a blessed Monday everyone
Looking forward to July 🌺
PREACH IT, SISTER!
DeleteSister Alanda, well said. I love what you shared about becoming your own best friend. Loving yourself is key. It’s so important that we don’t wait for others to validate us in order to know our worth—what a powerful reminder.
I’m so proud of how you handled that situation with the lady. I’m learning, too, just how powerful words are and how mindful we need to be with how we use them.
Just yesterday, I was reading about the tactless tongue. It reminded me that our words should always be used to build up, not tear down.
So, kudos to you—great job! ❤️❤️
Amen Sister Alanda, learning how to use our words is a sure sign of growth! You're on the right path.
DeleteGood Morning Sisters
ReplyDeleteSan/Cho
Hope you and your family are doing well.
Proverbs 30 & 31:
What Kind of Woman Are You Becoming?
Check-In Question:
Am I finding deeper joy in consistency, discipline, and wisdom—not just excitement and praise?
There’s something deeply satisfying about seeing growth in your own life—not the kind of growth that comes from hype or a temporary high, but the kind that quietly builds through daily faithfulness.
For a long time, I operated out of excitement. If something sparked my interest, I was all in—until the excitement faded. Then the idea, the goal, or even the commitment faded with it. I didn’t realize how much of my spiritual walk mirrored that same pattern. I would start strong, only to drift off when it no longer felt inspiring.
But God, in His grace, has been teaching me the value of consistency and discipline. These aren't glamorous words, but they are powerful tools. They are the very things that build character, deepen faith, and anchor us when emotions shift.
I’ve come to see that lasting transformation happens in the steady places—when I choose to stay the course even when it’s boring, when I pray even when I don’t feel like it, when I keep showing up even if no one notices. That’s where God meets me, grows me, and molds me.
I’m also learning to take things one step at a time. As a sanguine, I tend to get excited and take on too much at once. But that often leaves me overwhelmed and burnt out. Now, I’m asking God to help me focus—mastering one thing before rushing into the next. I’m slowing down so I can grow deeper, not just wider. 🙂
Have A Great Day Everyone
Slowing down to grow deeper sister Debbie is a beautiful thing that will help God to manifest his work better in you ..
DeleteThanks for sharing from the heart ♥️
Sister Debbie, your journey is so inspiring, and it’s a beautiful reminder that God meets us in the ordinary moments of obedience. Thank you for the encouragement!
DeleteGood Morning Ladies
ReplyDeleteMelancholic: Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything (or everyone) to be flawless first?
Hello Ladies
To be honest, I haven't had a recent opportunity to experience something recently where I need everything to be flawless first since going through this journey, but the WORTH part has been going through its own transformational growth. It's scary but God is leading me to become the woman that he has called me to be.
I now realize that I am worthy of God's Mercy and his Grace.
That my words have value - and I do not need to second guess or mince my words before putting it out there.
That I am of value - if it isn't for the people in my immediate environment then it's for someone else.
Have a great day everyone
Jazzy.
DeleteI missed you! 🙂
Thanks so much for sharing—
I really loved what you said here:
“It's scary but God is leading me to become the woman that He has called me to be. I now realize that I am worthy of God's mercy and His grace.
That my words have value—and I do not need to second guess or mince my words before putting it out there.”
That is so true. Once our words leave our mouth, that’s it. Even if we apologize, the impact can linger. Words are the weapon of choice for so many—whether intentionally or not.
Let’s keep using our words in a way that brings music to God’s ears.
Thank you again for sharing. Don’t stay away too long—I miss my pal! 😀
Amen Sister Jesmyn!
DeleteSister Jesmyn I like the fact that you acknowledged that you do not need to second guess or mince your words before speaking , too many times we hold back , but I believe once we do what needs to be done in love , we’ll be okay ..
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Good morning all!
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Days 30
Proverbs 30 & 31: What Kind of Woman Are You Becoming?
Yesterday, I felt the quiet pull to prepare ahead for today’s reflection. So, I sat with Proverbs 30 and 31 - read them slowly, then read them again. I let the words settle in me, and soon I found myself not just reading, but deeply reflecting.
This journey through Proverbs, especially while exploring my temperament, has been both spiritually challenging and richly rewarding. Adding this practice daily has not just disciplined my mind but softened my heart. It allows me to see myself more clearly - why I think the way I do, why I feel so deeply, and why I respond the way I have. More importantly, it’s helped me begin to envision the woman I’m becoming.
Today’s reflection asked:
What kind of woman am I becoming?
That question didn’t rush past me. It landed. It asked me to pause - and I did. I sat with it longer than I expected, letting it stir things in me. It’s a gentle, searching kind of question. The kind that humbles you and invites you inward.
And then came the heart of today’s question:
🔵 Melancholic:
Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything (or everyone) to be flawless first?
Yes - slowly, gently, more and more, I am.
I’m learning to see myself through God’s eyes - not through how productive I am or how precisely I manage life. I’m learning to release the need to prove myself. I don’t have to be everyone’s answer or have every detail under control to be valuable. God is teaching me that worth is not earned; it’s held. It’s something I carry because I belong to Him.
When I stop measuring myself against others… when I release the need to keep up or be perfect… I can ask a quieter, deeper question:
What is God forming in me beneath my temperament?
What I know for sure is this: God is gently softening my impatience, loosening my grip on control, and teaching me to trust Him even when things don’t go according to my plan. He is teaching me to respond instead of reacting. He helps me love more gently, trust more fully, and live more freely. Beneath the layers - my strengths, my sensitivities, my wiring - He is forming a woman who is steady in spirit, anchored in grace, and shaped by truth.
So what kind of woman am I becoming?
A woman still in process.
A woman learning to rest in grace, to walk with purpose, and to live with quiet confidence - not because not because I’ve finished the journey – as I am far from it, but because I am being led..
Wishing everyone a wonderful day!
In the words of my son, Wow! Wow! Wow!
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My sisters are on FIRE.🔥🔥
Sister Cindy, Like Sister Alanda, I read your response with a smile.
You nailed it.
Something I said to one of my sisters a few years ago. As her life began to change, so was her writing. I see the same in you. You are truly becoming the Woman God has created you to be.
I see greatness in you. Keep pressing forward—there’s so much more ahead for you. ❤️
Sister Cindy I read your post with joy in my heart , my takeaway from your post was you getting that quiet pull to plan ahead , trust me I can see the change in you and it’s a wonderful thing when we allow ourselves to draw nigh to God , he will Intern will draw closer to us , I am so happy you joined on this journey , God is indeed working on you . Keep in the word
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To God be the glory 🌺
Good morning every one
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Ami finding deeper joy in consistency, discipline, and wisdom-not just excitement and praise
Answer
I am finding deeper joy in consistency, discipline and wisdom.
Having the discipline to get up every early morning to communicate with my father is fill with excitement and joy.
He speaks to me through his word, I meditate on his promises and it gives me hope, joy, gladness and a peace that passeth all understanding.
Attending Bible studies constantly give me a deeper understanding of the word of God, of the p3rsom I was and the person I am becoming.
I thank God for dr. Alister penny and his love first lady, lady Gail who God has call in a time like this to empower us in the word and to show us our different temparament and to accept ourselves for who we are and to accept changes for the betterment of improving ourself to use wisdom in every aspects of our lives
Fasting ang worship help me to breakdown strongholds and comes out a champion.
These discipline offer pathway to inner peace and spiritual growth in my life
Have a bless day everyone
Peace
Love you guys
Sister Allison I quite agree with you on that bible study , it has given me such a zeal for the word of God ..
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🟡 Sanguine:
ReplyDeleteAm I finding deeper joy in consistency, discipline, and wisdom—not just excitement and praise?
✨There are some days when I find joy in the consistency but I still find myself going back to my old ways. Sundays message that Minister Debbie preached had me thinking why I like my old ways but it is because it is comfortable and easy to fall back into. I didn’t think my lack of discipline was this bad but I recognize I like excitement and distraction more than I would like to admit.in all honesty being distracted is like a get away for me. Throughout my childhood I was very focused and driven as I planned my whole life out but I was like that due to the fact I was in constant survival/ fight or flight mode/ people pleasing and the list can go on.
As I pull back all the layers of myself and finally look at the raw material and be honest with myself, I’m understanding worship is my weapon and this is all apart of the refining process.
Worship is my weapon !
DeleteWell said Sister Cassy I can relate to you when it comes to worship , the moment I decide to bask in my Gospel things get a bit lighter for me , knowing that God is able , something I read recently, fall in love with Jesus not the songs ..
Have a great rest of day .🌺
Blessed Tuesday Ladies ,
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Proverbs 30 : What kind of Woman Are you Becoming?
Mel/Phel
Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything (or everyone) to be flawless first?
Knowledge is powerful .so this exercise is helping me
better understand myself and my neighbors in order to love us well !
This journey is insightful and practical and am grateful for the
information that leading to transformation & Growth .
My desire is to become a woman that develops a deep sensitivity to spiritual things naturally, rather than responding negatively to all the triggers.
God's Grace is sufficient ,our identity is in Him .
Evening everyone
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is powerfully but only when I like it with purpose and courage
I learning that I should be more gentle when dealing with
People because gentleness is about having inner strength to be kind, I should have more courage to
to face challenges in difficult situations and willing
to still maintain a gentle approach
Blessed evening
Hello Wisdom Seekers
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🔵 Melancholic:
Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything (or everyone) to be flawless first?
I am recognizing first that we are all flawed, and that no one can be or is perfect except for our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ. In recognition of my imperfection I use the word of God to help me. Psalm 139:14 is a guiding scripture passage for me, the Lord lead me to this passage last week and I am holding on to it. “I am fearfully and wonderfully made” with all my weaknesses. I aim to release myself and others from such unattainable standards, and continue the work of transforming the weak areas of my temperament.
I do so by first by asking the Holy Spirit to help me recognize when that thought presents itself and shut it down.
Have a good night everyone
Hello wise ladies!
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proverbs 30 / 31
Am I beginning to see that my gentleness is powerful- but only when
I live it with purpose and courage?
I never thought, gentleness as powerful; but as I begin to understand more
about my temperament I realize in the past I use it to get out of conflict situation.
As I continue on my transformation journey I am learning to use the wisdom
from proverbs and the leading of the Holy Spirit; to live with purpose and courage;
knowing that God did not give me the Spirit of fear and timidity; but of powder
love and self - discipline (2 Timothy 1: 7), I am more aware of where I need to grow,
and with so many of my wisdom seekers sisters cheering me on. I am taking the necessary steps to make it happen.
have a great night!
Hola WS,
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Am I learning to release control and lean into godly wisdom, trusting that quiet strength is still strength?
Yes, every day is a day of learning. Even tonight at Bible study, I found myself learning while teaching. My flesh—my carnal nature—resists leaning into godly wisdom, but my spirit is moving in that direction full throttle. Through the Holy Spirit, I’m beginning to walk in quiet strength. This month has been a season of growth and transformation like I’ve never experienced before. I thank God for this platform. Thank you ladies for journeying with me. Let us continue to be faithful and consistent.
Good night all!
Ladies, thank you for a wonderful month. Together, let’s give thanks to God for His transformative power at work in our lives. Today’s responses were so encouraging and uplifting—what a joy to see how God is moving among us!
ReplyDeleteLet’s keep sharing deeply and growing together. For those who weren’t able to complete the 30-day journey, I encourage you to give it another shot in July. It’s never too late to start again.
Continue to read and meditate on God’s Word. Seek Him with your whole heart, and allow Him to do a lasting work of change in your life.
Thank you all once again. Let’s keep pressing forward—together.
June 30 2025
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Proverbs 30 & 31: What kind of Woman Are You Becoming
Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything ( or everyone) to be flawless first?
Over my many years, I have understood that I will not be flawless. Realizing that in myself was the easy part. The hard part was others expecting me to be flawless. With time, I accepted the fact that each of us comes with our flaws, however, that do not take away from my worth.
Thank God for showing me that His grace is sufficient to guide me through, to become the woman who is full of His wisdom compassion kindness Love as I continue to surrender my all in the palm of His hands.
It is really wonderful to be on that journey with you ladies. We are Becoming Let's not give up.
Blessings.
Hello everyone:
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PROVERBS 30&31
Melancholic:
Am I recognizing my worth without needing everything (or everyone) to be flawless first?
i thank God for the Proverbs journey.
Yes I am recognizing my worth without needing everything or everyone to be flawless. We all are flawed people we will never get to flawlessness. If I am flawless i would not need God or the holy spirit. Once others and I do the best that we can, and put our all into it, I feel satisfied.