🌿 Temperament Topic: Thoughtful Light
— Balancing Emotion and Expression through the Power of the Spirit
Good day, Wisdom Seekers! 👋🏾
Thank you to each of you who poured out encouragement yesterday for our Sanguine/Choleric sisters. Your responses were bold, insightful, and full of grace — just like the women we were celebrating. 🔥💛
✨ Remember, this transformation journey is not about perfection — it’s about presence. Simply showing up with an open heart each day is a win. If you're behind, no worries! You can always reflect and post when ready.
📅 Today, May 13, we’re reflecting on the 🟢🟡 Melancholic/Sanguine blend. These sisters bring a unique blend of introspection and expression — often carrying both joy and depth in the same breath.
Let’s uplift her today in prayer and encouragement as we consider how God works through this blend of heart and light.
🔍 Understanding the Melancholic/Sanguine Temperament
This blend brings a sensitive spirit with expressive energy. These women can move you with their words, art, or insights — and they often feel deeply, care passionately, and speak with sincerity. Their hearts crave meaning, beauty, and connection. But they may also experience internal battles between insecurity and self-expression, or between mood and mission.
Their transformation journey calls them to ground their feelings in truth, and to allow the Holy Spirit to stabilize their inner world so their gifts can shine with consistency and grace.
🌟 Strengths:
- Creative • Empathetic • Expressive • Loyal • Thoughtful • Inspiring
⚠️ Growth Areas:
- Mood swings • People-pleasing • Overthinking • Inconsistency • Fear of rejection
🕊️ Why Yielding Matters:
- Without surrender, their emotions may lead them. Yielding to the Holy Spirit helps them live from truth, not just feelings — and express themselves without emotional overwhelm.
💡 Core Needs:
- Affirmation • Understanding • Emotional connection • Time for reflection and creative expression
💔 Discouragement Triggers:
- Feeling misunderstood • Harsh criticism • Being rushed • Feeling overlooked
🔥 Under Stress:
- They may retreat emotionally, question their worth, or shift between over-talking and withdrawing
💞 How They Love:
- Through emotional support, creative expression, thoughtful gestures, and attentive care
👥 In Groups:
- They’re sensitive to others’ needs and bring warmth, laughter, and heartfelt insight. They may need encouragement to stay steady and not feel like they need to perform to be accepted.
🤔 Common Misunderstandings:
- They may seem inconsistent or overly emotional, but at their core, they’re craving authentic connection and stable support.
🙏 Spiritual Strengths:
- Discernment • Worship • Compassion • Creative communication • Sensitivity to God’s presence
💬 How to Encourage Them:
- Speak to both their creativity and their character. Celebrate their depth and beauty — not just what they produce. Remind them they are enough, even when they’re not at their best.
⚠️ Temperament Traps:
- Emotional highs and lows • Self-criticism • Starting and stopping projects • Defining worth by attention
➡️ Transformational Goal:
- To live from identity, not insecurity — to let the Holy Spirit stabilize their feelings and empower their expression for the Kingdom.
🛐 Prayer Focus for Today:
- Pray that our Melancholic/Sanguine sister will walk in emotional freedom and spiritual confidence. May she feel secure in God’s love, express herself boldly without fear, and rest in the truth that she is both deeply known and deeply loved.
💬 Today’s Blog Reflections:
- 💡 What is one thing you learned that will help you relate more thoughtfully to someone with this blend?
- 🌿 If this is your blend, what truth or “aha moment” stood out to you today?
- 🙏 Write a short prayer — either for someone with this blend or for yourself, if it applies.
📩 Share your thoughts below on the blog comments section — your words could bring clarity, healing, or hope to someone else.
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💖 You are seen. You are valuable. You are growing — beautifully.
Let’s keep walking in wisdom — expressive, anchored, and whole.
God shines through your thoughtful light. 🕯️
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Good Morning, Sisters
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Theme: Thoughtful Light — Balancing Emotion and Expression through the Power of the Spirit
Today, we reflect on another beautiful and insightful truth about our sister’s unique temperament blend.
Whenever I attend a function whether a picnic, a party, or a fellowship there are always certain people I look forward to seeing. Sister Hazel is one of them. She brings such expressive energy into the space, lighting it up with her presence. That joy, that vibrancy it’s not just seen, it’s felt.
Sister Hazel, you may sometimes feel like you don’t have much to offer but let me remind you: you are filled with great insight and deep wisdom. Don’t second guess yourself. Your voice matters. Your presence carries weight.
Take to heart this powerful quote:
“Their transformation journey calls them to ground their feelings in truth, and to allow the Holy Spirit to stabilize their inner world so their gifts can shine with consistency and grace.”
This is not just theory it’s truth. I have experienced it in my own life:
“Without surrender, their emotions may lead them.”
That’s why I lovingly admonish you: live a life of daily surrender to the Lord. Continue to yield to the Holy Spirit. Let Him lead you, help you live from truth, not just emotion, and guide your expression with grace and clarity. When you do, you’ll see transformation—not only in how you feel, but in how you walk, how you witness, and how you shine.
Sister Hazel, I encourage you:
Live from your identity in Christ, not from insecurity.
Let the Holy Spirit steady your heart and empower your voice for the Kingdom. I’ve seen the beauty of your spirit when you operate under His leading. In the words of Pastor Penny, “You are flowing.” Remain in that divine connection.
Today, we see you, we celebrate you, and we’re standing with you as you continue to grow into the woman God has called you to be. Mrs. Hazel James. 😊
Prayer:
Heavenly Father,
This morning, I lift up Sister Hazel to You.
May she walk in the fullness of emotional freedom and spiritual confidence.
Let Your love be her constant assurance stronger than fear, louder than doubt.
May she know, deep in her soul, that she is fully known and completely loved by You.
Help her express herself boldly and without hesitation,
Rooted in the truth of who You’ve created her to be.
Let her heart rest in Your peace,
And her spirit rise with joy,
Secure in the embrace of Your unchanging grace.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen
Have a Greatttt Day 💖💖
Amen!
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ReplyDeleteSister Hazel it’s all about you today 🌺😊
Understanding the Melancholic/ Sanguine Blend
Sister Hazel it’s amazing to read about your blend today , when I got to this particular part
“These women can move you with their words,”
I said this has to be the lady that sings but just for clarification I confirmed with sister Debbie and I was right , you have a such a melodic voice and it shows even in your singing .. This is the part I like about you , your hearts crave meaning, beauty, and connection.
Remember that your strength is perfect in every way, I am also a melancholic so the craving for authentic connection and support is always there , let me remind you though celebrate yourself all of your inner depth and your beauty , keep reminding yourself that you are enough .. keep this song in mind
🎵 Your already loved
Your already chosen
You know who you are
You know what you’ve spoken
Your already loved more than you can Imagine
And that is enough .. 🎵
Allow your gift to shine with consistency and grace .
My prayer for you
Father this morning I lift up sister Hazel before you , help her to seek solace and security in your unfailing love help her lord to acknowledge her fears and uncertainties , but help her to trust in your power and guidance , grant her the courage to live without fear knowing that you love her dearly , help her lord to be able to express herself boldly in your truth be with her lord now and forevermore
In Jesus name I pray
Amen.. 🙏🏾
Deborah
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GM lovely Sis Hazel
Know you over the years that speaks of you ,you are that kind of person.
Looking at you i can see you transforming as you lean mor on the Spirit of God you are just shining in you younger days and even now .you are always a blessing to my heart in your sining ministry .etc.
Being Melancholic part of your blend i want to encourage you instead of overthinking allow God Spirit to help you to depend fully on Him so He can cast out :
Fear
Mood Swings etc.
And please Him instead of people.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father on the behalf of Hazel my Sis please hel her to yeild to your Holy spirit and not her feelings s comfort her that she will not feel overlooked or question her worthbut she will be steady and feel the need not to perform to be accepted .
Heavenly Father remind sis hazel to know that she is enough having you in her life in Jesus Name Amen.
❤ you plenty.🤣
Amen sister Deborah.
DeleteAmen Amen Amen
DeleteSister Alanda, You captured her beautifully. 💖 Amen to the prayer.
ReplyDeleteWell said Sister Debbie and Sister Alanda. I do hope Sister Hazel gets a chance to read what is said about her today. Thank you ladies for faithfully posting - it is an encouragement.
ReplyDeleteSis Namesake & Sis Alanda not forgetting my FL with the help of the Holy one reading uall post keep me going hope one of these days i will be able to relate and express as uall .Am alway happy when i read uall post your voices are in my head.🤣 i feel bless.& happy .Don'nt stop posting❤🙏
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon WS,
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Theme: Thoughtful Light — Balancing Emotion and Expression through the Power of the Spirit
Today we celebrate sister Hazel.
My sister Hazel, while your blend reflects you only, just remember that you are not alone, becauae the Holy Spirit dwell in you, as you live in Christ Jesus.
We all can relate in one way or another to your temperament blend (duo)
I admire your steadfastness, consistency, obedience and faithfulness as you reverence GOD in praise and worship.
I remembered you vividly from Boca Church, but during Covid-19, I saw first hand, your dedication, commitment, selflessness, and respect to God and to the ministry of LCC.
While many was uncertain, you were confident in worship, and I was truly I spired and motivated.
Celebrate your strength, depth and beauty, not just for what you have done, but, more so because of who you are. You are sincere and genuine, and I encourage you today to stay focus and committed, and wants you to know that you are enough, even when you’re not at your best.
Lord strengthen my sister Hazel, and remind her that she is not alone in this journey, but that you , Oh Lord is always with her. give her the boldness and the confiden that she needs to balance her emotion and expression through the Power of the Spirit. Helop her to step out in faith and trust you for everything concerning her life in Jesus name Amen.
Amen sister Glenda
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Hi ladies,
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Hazel is very deep and caring. A deeper thinker; she would notice a need before anyone else, and acts quickly to meet that need ,without ringing any bells.she would lightly any rooms with her thoughts proving suggestions and mischievous laughter . I noticed sometimes she could be very hard on herself; and tends to doubt herself.
Hazel stay focus and steadfast,
There's no need to doubt yourself and keep flowing the leading of the Holy Spirit.
Heavenly father, l thank you for my sister, l pray for wisdom, as she continues on this journey, of understanding how her temperament, can uplift and encourage others.
Have a bless night!
Hello Wisdom Seekers,
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-Melancholic/Sanguine Blend-of heart and Light
Sister Hazel ,certainly reflects these qualities in her strength,she is indeed creative ,empathetic , expressive ,loyal , thoughtful ,inspiring and In a group setting she bring warmth and laughter and heartfelt insight .
Hazel is kind and encouraging
Prayer :
Heavenly Father we thank you for our dear sister Hazel unique qualities.We pray that she will walk in emotional freedom and spiritual confidence .Teach her what she needs to learn towards growth and spiritual transformation .
And guide her into the bold woman you have to called her to be .
In Jesus Name Amen 🙏
Good evening all,
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Sister Hazel, even though I am not familiar with you, it is interesting to read about your blend.
This stood out to me…”This blend brings a sensitive spirit with expressive energy”
Simply put - They feel deeply and they express freely — a powerful and beautiful combination that allows them to touch others’ hearts through sincerity, creativity, and emotion.
Lord,
Thank You for the heart of my Melancholic/Sanguine sister, so full of feeling, creativity, and care. Help her find peace in Your truth when her emotions feel heavy. Give her confidence when she feels unsure. Let her know she is loved for who she is. Use her gifts to bring beauty, joy, and light to others. Keep her rooted in Your love and steady in Your grace. Amen.
Hello everyone,
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May 13, 2025, Melancholic/Sanguine Blend
One thing I learned that will help me relate more thoughtfully to someone with this blend is emotional highs and lows, self-criticism, starting and stopping projects, and defining worth by attention.
Sis Hazel, I think what was said about you before* is clear. My encouragement to you is when you are going through those high and low moments, in the high moments, enjoy it, but stay rooted or grounded. When you are joyful, inspired, and connected, do not rush past it or feel guilty for it. Let yourself celebrate. Thank God for those moments of lightness and laughter. They are a gift. But also stay grounded in the truth, that your worth is not based on your energy or productivity; it is already secure in Christ.
James 1:17 says
Every good gift, and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change. (ESV)
In your low moments:
Remember you are not alone, and this will pass. When you feel heavy in heart, distant or uncertain, God sees you, even when it is hard to express what you feel, He understands. You don't have to fix yourself to be loved or accepted. Rest in Him, even if it is for a moment, to say Lord help me.
Your low moments do not disqualify you. They make you more real, more compassionate, and more dependent on the one who holds you together.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, I thank you for the unique way in which you have created Sis Hazel with depth, passion, and sensitivity. Thank you for the joy she feels when life is light, and for being present when her heart feels heavy. In her high moments, remind her to stay humble and rooted in you.
In her low moments, be her anchor. When she overthinks, calms her mind when in doubt, steady her heart. In Jesus' name.
Good night
May 13th 2025
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Sis. Hazel,your blend definitely speak to who you are. Your depth, care and sincerity come with some humour.
You are committed thoughtful and empathetic.
Do not allow self doubt to keep you from who God created you to be.
Allow the Holy Spirit to always lead and direct you.
Heavenly Father, I pray gor my Sis. Hazel,that she will continue to surrender all of herself to you,so she can continue to grow in confidence. Not doubting herself but standing on your word with boldness .
In Jesus' name. Amen.
Hello Wisdom Seekers
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Sister Hazel you are uniquely blessed and gifted.
You stands out
You are the only one among with this blend.
This blend brings a sensitive spirit with expressive energy. They can move you with their words
This is so true of Hazel, there are times she will have an entire room in laughter by what she says.
Hazel is very compassionate toward others she is always thinking of ways help or bless someone. Keep mind you though she does not want to be seen or known. What ever she does it is done discreetly.
Hazel is gifted in many ways but holds herself back.
Heavenly Father, I thank You for Sister Hazel, thank you for the temperament blend you have blessed her with. Lord, help her to appreciate her personality blend. May she become aware of the strengths that she has and walk in it. Help her to acknowledge the weaknesses that blend and be willing to work on those areas with the support and encouragement of the Holy Spirit.
Lord, let Hazel know that she is loved, and she has the support of those You have placed in her life and most of all the support of the Holy Spirit.