June 28-30🌿 Temperament Transformation Final Weekend Check-Ins

June 27 -📘 Proverbs 27: Sharpening, Humility & True Friendship

Good Friday Morning, Everyone!

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June 26 -🌾 Temperament Transformation Quiz – Proverbs 26

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👋🏽 Welcome!

Proverbs 26 is a vivid chapter filled with wisdom about how foolishness shows up in our words, attitudes, and responses. It contrasts wise and foolish behavior and gives us powerful insight into how we engage with others—especially in moments of conflict, correction, or temptation to gossip.

This quiz is designed to help you reflect on your own growth through the lens of your primary temperament and how it is being transformed by wisdom from God's Word.

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📜 Proverbs 26:4–5

“Do not answer a fool according to his folly… Answer a fool according to his folly…”

1. How are you handling conflict or foolish arguments?

🟥 Choleric

• I no longer feel the need to win every debate.

• I ask the Holy Spirit when to speak and when to walk away.

• I resist fuelling foolishness with more fire.

• I'm learning to respond with discernment instead of domination.

🟦 Melancholic

• I don’t rehearse arguments in my mind anymore.

• I’ve stopped correcting people just to be “right.”

• I trust God to vindicate me, not my intellect.

• I'm learning to step out of silent judgment and into Spirit-led peace.

🟨 Sanguine

• I resist jumping into drama or sarcasm for attention.

• I stay grounded even when conversations turn chaotic.

• I’m learning the power of wise silence.

• I'm learning to value meaningful dialogue over being liked.

🟩 Phlegmatic

• I speak up when wisdom is needed instead of avoiding conflict.

• I now recognize when silence enables foolishness.

• I’m more willing to have uncomfortable but necessary conversations.

• I'm learning to stand firm in love instead of hiding behind peacekeeping.

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📜 Proverbs 26:11

“As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly.”

2. How are you breaking free from repeated mistakes or destructive patterns?

🟥 Choleric

• I stop and seek counsel before charging ahead.

• I’ve acknowledged where pride made me repeat old mistakes.

• I now reflect before reacting.

• I'm learning to surrender control to avoid familiar downfalls.

🟦 Melancholic

• I recognize when my self-criticism becomes a cycle.

• I bring my patterns into the light instead of hiding in shame.

• I’ve surrendered my perfectionism for grace-based growth.

• I'm learning to let go of overthinking and walk by faith.

🟨 Sanguine

• I don’t ignore red flags just because I want fun.

• I’ve replaced impulse with prayerful decisions.

• I now recognize when I’m escaping instead of facing.

• I'm learning to choose discipline over temporary pleasure.

🟩 Phlegmatic

• I no longer stay stuck in passivity.

• I take responsibility instead of blaming circumstances.

• I now actively seek change, not just wish for it.

• I'm learning to move with intention, not just comfort.

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📜 Proverbs 26:20–21

“Without wood a fire goes out; without gossip a quarrel dies down…”

3. How are you stewarding your words in tension or gossip?

🟥 Choleric

• I don’t escalate tension just to prove a point.

• I’ve learned that silence can be powerful.

• I now use my influence to calm, not stir.

• I'm learning to speak truth in love, not in dominance.

🟦 Melancholic

• I stop rehearsing or retelling negative stories.

• I let go of emotional fuel and seek peace.

• I choose grace over critical observation.

• I'm learning to release resentment before it becomes conversation.

🟨 Sanguine

• I no longer spread what I haven’t verified.

• I use my words to build up, not entertain at others’ expense.

• I resist the urge to be “in the know.”

• I'm learning to speak with depth, not just delight.

🟩 Phlegmatic

• I speak peace instead of just avoiding problems.

• I help diffuse conflict by being present and wise.

• I’ve stopped avoiding gossip and now actively shut it down.

• I'm learning to steward words as tools of healing, not silence.

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📜 Proverbs 26:12

“Do you see a person wise in their own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for them.”

4. How are you growing in humility and openness to correction?

🟥 Choleric

• I invite feedback before making decisions.

• I’ve let go of the need to always be the expert.

• I now ask questions before giving solutions.

• I'm learning to value being transformed over being impressive.

🟦 Melancholic

• I’m open to correction without taking it as a personal attack.

• I don’t assume I see everything perfectly.

• I invite others to speak into my blind spots.

• I'm learning to welcome grace when I'm not "right."

🟨 Sanguine

• I’ve slowed down to actually receive instruction.

• I’m no longer deflecting correction with jokes.

• I listen without needing to explain myself right away.

• I'm learning to be still enough to grow deeper.

🟩 Phlegmatic

• I speak up to ask for help or advice when needed.

• I no longer assume avoiding failure equals wisdom.

• I’m learning that humility means teachability, not invisibility.

• I'm learning to receive correction without retreating inward.

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🗣️ Time to Share: Share Your Responses in the Comments Section

Take a moment to reflect:

• Which answers reflect where you're at right now and who you're becoming on your journey?
  
  

June 25 -💙 Proverbs 25 & Mark 12:31 – Loving the Melancholic with Wis

Greetings!  Thank you Ladies in Grenada for your contribution in last night's lesson.  Very much appreciated.  May we continue to learn from each other.

June 24 - Proverbs 24 💙 Understanding and Loving the Melancholic

According to Mark 12:31

"You shall love your neighbour as yourself."

This summer, we are deepening our understanding of how to love each temperament as ourselves — and this week, our focus is the Melancholic: introspective, sensitive, and gifted with deep thought and care.  Last night's discussion was rich and was truly an eye opener hearing from Sister Debbie, Sister Alynthia, Sister Trudy, Sister Hazel and Sister Jesmyn.  Sister Claudia you were missed.  Thanks for your contributions ladies.

📖 What Proverbs 24 Teaches About Loving the Melancholic

Proverbs 24 speaks of wisdom, courage, restraint, and the value of good counsel. These are all essential when loving a Melancholic, who may often wrestle with fears, discouragement, or overthinking. They thrive in quiet consistency and are deeply blessed by truth offered with tenderness.

Key verses that guide how to love them:

• Proverbs 24:5 – “A wise man is strong, and a man of knowledge increases power.”

• Proverbs 24:10 – “If you are slack in the day of distress, your strength is limited.”

• Proverbs 24:26 – “He kisses the lips who gives a right answer.”

• Proverbs 24:32 – “When I saw, I reflected upon it; I looked, and received instruction.”

These verses remind us that giving thoughtful, encouraging truth and standing with the Melancholic in their low seasons is an act of love that reflects God’s heart.

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💬 Encouragement for the Melancholic:

Dear Melancholic soul,

Your depth is not a flaw — it’s a divine gift. When you feel unseen or overwhelmed, remember: God sees your quiet sacrifices, your careful love, and your longing for truth. He doesn’t rush you — and neither must you.

Let Proverbs 24:14 comfort you:

“Know that wisdom is thus for your soul; if you find it, then there will be a future, and your hope will not be cut off.”

God promises hope and a future. You don’t need to strive for perfection to be loved. Rest in the truth that you are enough, deeply known, and eternally valued.

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💡 Reflection Questions (from Proverbs 24)

🌀 For the Melancholic
📖 Proverbs 24:10 – “If you are slack in the day of distress, your strength is limited.”

Question:
When you feel emotionally overwhelmed, how can you draw on God’s strength instead of your own?

• A) Step back and journal my thoughts to process prayerfully

• B) Call a trusted friend who understands my inner world

• C) Meditate on a comforting scripture until peace comes

• D) Take a break from responsibilities to regroup and pray

Kindly share your answer in the comments below.

June 23💙 Loving with Understanding

 

Mark 12:31 — “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

What does that look like when your neighbour views the world through a sensitive, thoughtful, and emotionally deep lens?

This week in Wisdom Seekers, we’re reflecting on how to love the Melancholic temperament with God’s wisdom. Guided by Proverbs 23, we’ll practice listening, affirming, speaking truth, and reflecting Christ’s love to someone who may not always say what they feel, yet feels what others say very deeply.

These questions will help us slow down, examine our hearts, and grow in intentional, insightful love.

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📝 Instructions

Read Proverbs 23 prayerfully. Then, work through each question below and answer honestly.  DO NOT SHARE YOUR ANSWERS IN THE COMMENTS.

Let’s grow in wisdom and love — together!

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1. Attentive Listening

👉 How can you listen more attentively to a Melancholic’s unspoken needs?

• A. Give them space to speak fully without interruption.

• B. Affirm their thoughts even when you don’t fully agree.

• C. Avoid rushing their process of opening up.

• D. Other: ______________________

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2. Meaningful Affirmation

Proverbs 23:15-16 celebrates wise and honest speech.
👉 How can you speak life into a Melancholic’s heart this week?

• A. Write a quiet note of encouragement.

• B. Thank them for their consistency and loyalty.

• C. Highlight a thoughtful contribution they made recently.

• D. Other: ______________________

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3. Overcoming Comparison

Proverbs 23:17 warns against envy and calls us to revere the Lord.
👉 How might a Melancholic struggle with self-comparison, and how can you help them?

• A. Remind them of their unique value in God’s plan.

• B. Share your own struggles with comparison to build connection.

• C. Celebrate their unnoticed strengths aloud.

• D. Other: ______________________

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4. Truth in Love

Proverbs 23:23 urges us to “buy the truth” — Melancholics value honesty over flattery.
👉 How can you share truth that builds up rather than wounds?

• A. Offer feedback gently and privately.

• B. Be honest about your feelings without blaming.

• C. Affirm their worth before speaking a hard truth.

• D. Other: ______________________

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5. Meeting Emotional Needs

Mark 12:31 challenges us to love as we love ourselves.
👉 When you’re feeling low, what comforts you? How can you meet that same need for a Melancholic this week?

• A. Offer your undistracted time.

• B. Reassure them when they overthink.

• C. Remind them they don’t have to be perfect to be loved.

• D. Other: ______________________

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💬 Answer the following in the comments section below:

• After reading and answering the questions above, which question opened your eyes to a new way of loving someone deeply and wisely?

Stay wise my sisters!

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💬 CHARACTERS

• 🔴 Choleric: Bold, outspoken, easily frustrated by laziness

• 🟡 Sanguine: Talkative, distracted, eager to please

• 🔵 Melancholic: Thoughtful, reflective, easily weighed down by injustice

• 🟢 Phlegmatic: Peaceful, quiet, tends to avoid conflict and confrontation

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🌿 ACT 1: THE TRUTH REVEALS

Sanguine (cheerfully):
🎉 “Ladies! I underlined SEVEN verses in Proverbs 22! Soooo many nuggets! Listen to this one— ‘A good name is to be more desired than great wealth...’ (v.1). That hit me—’cause I love attention, but… am I chasing reputation or righteousness?”

Melancholic (nodding slowly):
📘 “That’s deep, Sandra. I marked that too. But verse 8... ‘He who sows injustice will reap calamity.’ It made me reflect on my reactions to unfair situations. I replay them too long in my mind.”

Choleric (leaning forward):
🔥 “Verse 13 shook me: ‘The sluggard says, “There is a lion outside…” Like, seriously? Excuses! I’m always pushing others to act, but this convicted me—I sometimes push too hard. I need to balance urgency with grace.”

Phlegmatic (smiling gently):
🌿 “I underlined verse 17: ‘Incline your ear and hear the words of the wise.’ I’m usually quiet, but I realized I can lean in more—not just to listen, but to apply. I avoid action out of comfort. That’s not peace—that’s passivity.”

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🌿 ACT 2: TRANSFORMATION BEGINS

Choleric (pointing at the verse):
🔥 “Verse 24 says, ‘Do not associate with a man given to anger…’ Whew. What if I’m that person? I’ve lost my cool when I felt disrespected. But I’m learning to pause before I pounce.”

Sanguine (giggling, then pausing):
💛 “Girl, me too. Verse 5 made me think: ‘Thorns and snares are in the way of the perverse.’ When I ignore wise counsel or jump into drama—it backfires. I'm learning to say no to things, even if it makes me seem ‘boring.’”

Melancholic (softly):
🔵 “I journaled verse 10: ‘Drive out the scoffer, and contention will go out.’ Sometimes... I scoff in silence, in my thoughts. I don’t say it, but I replay wrongs. I want to be transformed into someone who lets go.”

Phlegmatic (nodding):
🟢 “Same here. Verse 3 really spoke to me: ‘The prudent sees the evil and hides himself…’ I hide, but not out of wisdom—out of fear. I want to discern and act, not disappear.”

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🌿 ACT 3: DECLARATIONS OF CHANGE

All Together (with conviction):
📖 “Our temperaments may be different, but our transformation is the same—by the power of God’s Word!”

Choleric:
🔴 “I will lead with wisdom, not just drive.”

Sanguine:
🟡 “I will delight in truth, not just attention.”

Melancholic:
🔵 “I will process through prayer, not just emotion.”

Phlegmatic:
🟢 “I will seek peace through action, not just stillness.”

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💬 QUESTION

🎭 Which character’s line made you pause or say, “That’s me”?

💬 Share your answer below.  Thanks.

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💡 TRANSFORMATION QUOTE FOR THE WEEK:

“Temperament is the clay. Scripture and the Spirit are the Potter’s hands.”

June 21 - Proverbs 21 - Heart over Haste

 

🛤️ Temperament Transformation
Through Proverbs 21

📖 Greetings, Wisdom Seekers!

Thank you for joining us in yesterday’s Proverbs reflection!

Before diving into today’s transformation guide, take a moment to prayerfully read Proverbs 21. Ask the Holy Spirit to highlight what He wants you to see—not just for knowledge, but for transformation. This chapter speaks to our motives, justice, speech, diligence, and how deeply God knows our hearts.

Whether you’re naturally bold, bubbly, analytical, or calm—the Spirit and the Word are working in you to shape a temperament that reflects Christ more clearly each day.

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👉🏽 Be sure to read through all four temperament sections—don’t stop at your dominant one.
God often uses our secondary temperament to reveal blind spots or hidden strengths. Take time to reflect on both your primary and secondary temperaments for a deeper, more complete transformation experience. You may find the Holy Spirit speaking in unexpected ways!

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🔴 CHOLERIC – Transformed Power through Surrender

Key Verse: Proverbs 21:2
“Every person’s way is right in his own eyes, but the Lord examines the hearts.”

Transformation Focus – I will seek to:

• Surrender my drive to God’s direction, trusting His lead over my logic.

• Lead with righteousness, not just results—making integrity my true success.

• Guard my words with wisdom, speaking life instead of just commands.

🗯️ Affirmation: “I lead with purpose, but I yield to God’s wisdom.”

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🟡 SANGUINE – Transformed Joy through Discernment

Key Verse: Proverbs 21:23
“One who guards his mouth and his tongue, guards his soul from troubles.”

Transformation Focus – I will seek to:

• Practice timely silence, knowing when to speak and when to listen.

• Avoid shallow pleasures and seek joy that satisfies the soul.

• Choose wisdom over impulse, letting the Spirit guide my energy.

🗯️ Affirmation: “My joy is anchored in godly wisdom.”

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🔵 MELANCHOLIC – Transformed Reflection through Trust

Key Verse: Proverbs 21:30
“There is no wisdom, no understanding, and no plan against the Lord.”

Transformation Focus – I will seek to:

• Trust God’s sovereignty, especially when my plans fall short.

• Take Spirit-led action without overanalyzing or second-guessing.

• Let grace lead me, releasing perfectionism for peace.

🗯️ Affirmation: “God’s wisdom is greater than my plans.”

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🟢 PHLEGMATIC – Transformed Peace through Purpose

Key Verse: Proverbs 21:25
“The desire of the lazy one puts him to death, for his hands refuse to work.”

Transformation Focus – I will seek to:

• Say yes to disciplined action, even in the small, steady steps.

• Let my peace fuel productivity, not procrastination.

• Take quiet but bold steps forward, trusting the Spirit’s prompting.

🗯️ Affirmation: “My calm is empowered by Spirit-led action.”

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💬 COMMENT INSTRUCTIONS:

📝 Now that you’ve explored all four temperaments:

✨ 1. Choose ONE “I will seek to” statement from your primary temperament—the one that most reflects your natural personality.

✨ 2. Do the same for your secondary temperament—the area where God may be gently shaping new growth.

🗣️ Post both statements in the comments.

(Optional: Share why they resonate with you today!)

June 20 - Proverbs 20 - TRUE OR FALSE OR SOMEWHAT CHECK IN

 

Dallas Willard

“The disciplined person is one who can do what needs to be done when it needs to be done, whether they feel like it or not.”

(from The Spirit of the Disciplines)

June 19- Proverbs 19 - TEMPERAMENT TRANSFORMATON REFLECTION

Today's Reading Proverbs 19

Dear Wisdom Seekers,

As we continue growing in the Word and allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our temperaments, we turn our attention to Proverbs 19—a chapter rich with practical wisdom about patience, planning, correction, discipline, and listening to advice.

This chapter highlights the difference between hasty, impulsive behaviour and Spirit-led wisdom. It reminds us that many are the plans in our hearts, but only God’s purpose prevails (v.21). Whether you tend to move too fast, speak too quickly, avoid action, or wrestle with perfectionism—Proverbs 19 gently guides us to slow down, listen, and live wisely.

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📖 Before You Begin:

Take a few quiet moments to prayerfully read all of Proverbs 19. Ask the Holy Spirit to highlight which verses speak directly to your temperament or current situation. Let the Word settle in your heart before you begin reflecting.

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PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING

✨ Reflection Instructions:

After you read the chapter, go ahead and answer all the reflection questions for either LIGHT or LEAN-IN. There are some optional answers to help you get started or give you ideas. 

If you’re feeling it and want to do both, that’s great too! And don’t worry about sticking to the suggestions—feel free to write your own thoughts or change things up however you like.

📝 How to Share:
Simply type or copy and paste your answers into the blog. 

🌱 At the end, take a moment to reread your answers as a whole. Look for patterns of growth, areas of conviction, or reasons to give thanks. Your responses are part of your personal transformation journey—and they matter.

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Ready to reflect? Scroll down to begin.
📖 Let wisdom shape you today—one verse, one reflection, one surrender at a time.

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🔗 LIGHT Reflection – Proverbs 19

L – Learn

Proverbs 19:20 — “Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.”

What have you recently learned about how your temperament is beginning to respond better to correction or godly advice?

• I’ve started slowing down before reacting when I receive correction.

• Instead of feeling defensive, I now try to reflect on what’s being said.

• I’m learning that accepting advice shows strength, not weakness.

• I’ve begun to appreciate that discipline is God’s way of protecting my growth.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

I – Insight

Proverbs 19:11 — “A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.”

What new insight has the Holy Spirit given you about how you're developing more patience or emotional maturity?

• I realized that not every offense needs a reaction.

• It’s getting easier to pause when something frustrates me.

• I'm learning that overlooking minor offenses is actually a sign of wisdom.

• God is teaching me to value peace over proving a point.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

G – Grateful

Proverbs 19:8 — “The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.”

What wisdom from Proverbs 19 are you especially grateful for because it’s helping you change?

• I’m grateful that slowing down helps me avoid mistakes.

• Wisdom is teaching me that God’s plans are better than mine.

• I’m thankful for the Holy Spirit’s reminders to think before I speak.

• I now see how wisdom guards my relationships and decisions.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

H – Highlight

Proverbs 19:21 — “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”

Which verse stood out to you, and how is it guiding your personal growth?

• Verse 21 reminded me to trust God even when my plans fall apart.

• Verse 2 made me pause—I’m learning not to rush decisions.

• Verse 11 stood out—I’m growing in letting go of offenses.

• Verse 20 encouraged me to welcome advice instead of resisting it.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

 T – Takeaway

Proverbs 19:2 — “Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes.”

What’s your biggest takeaway from today’s reflection that shows transformation in progress?

• I’m learning to combine my energy with wisdom.

• God is teaching me that patience is part of power.

• I now see that rushing often leads to regret.

• Slowing down has helped me hear God more clearly.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________
  
  
  
  
  

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🌿 LEAN-IN Reflection – Proverbs 19

L – Look

What verse in Proverbs 19 most revealed growth in your temperament this week?

• I’m beginning to notice how often I act in haste, and verse 2 reminded me to pause more often.

• Verse 20 showed me how I’ve become more open to godly advice instead of resisting it.

• I’m learning to let go of small offenses, and verse 11 affirmed that this is wisdom taking root.

• When I read verse 21, I felt peace—it’s getting easier to release my plans and trust God’s purpose.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

E – Examine

How is the Holy Spirit helping you see patterns that are being transformed?

• I’ve been more aware of when irritation rises, and I’m catching myself before reacting harshly.

• Instead of avoiding conflict, I’ve started addressing things gently but directly.

• I’m less obsessed with getting everything perfect—I’m learning to move with grace, not pressure.

• When I notice myself retreating in silence, I now try to speak up with love instead.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

A – Align

Where are your words or behaviours starting to align more with God’s truth?

• I’m being more honest and less tempted to exaggerate to sound impressive.

• I’ve been slowing down my speech so I can speak the truth in love, not in frustration.

• When I feel tempted to stay quiet to avoid awkwardness, I ask God to help me be truthful anyway.

• I’m beginning to realize that silence isn’t always wise—sometimes withholding the truth is also misleading.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

N – Name a Next Step

What small but specific next step is God calling you to take this week?

• I need to finish a task I’ve been avoiding—it’s time to follow through.

• There’s a conversation I’ve been dodging, and I believe God is asking me to speak in love.

• My mornings need to begin with God again—starting tomorrow, I’ll give Him the first 15 minutes.

• To grow in discipline, I’ll create small goals and ask a friend to keep me accountable.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

I – Invite

Invite the Holy Spirit into one specific area of your temperament this week.

• Holy Spirit, I surrender my need to control outcomes—teach me how to rest in You.

• I’ve grown too passive in some areas; I invite You to stir me to act when I’d rather delay.

• Please transform my emotional reactions into calm, Christlike responses.

• Free me from people-pleasing—I want to live anchored in Your truth, not others’ opinions.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

N – Note

Note one recent area of visible growth.

• I’m seeing more patience in how I respond when things don’t go as planned.

• Lately, I’ve paused more often to pray before reacting—and that’s growth for me.

• The Lord is softening my pride and making room for humility in everyday moments.

• For once, I’m finishing things I start—and I know that’s the Spirit strengthening me.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: ________________________________

Wishing everyone a terrific Thursday! Stay focused and consistent.

Kindly come over to the chat and let me know if you enjoyed this Reflective Report on your Temperament Transformation.   I'm considering using a similar format for July, unless another idea comes to mind. Thanks!

June 18 - 🗣️ “The tongue has the power of life and death.” — Proverbs 18:21

🌞 Good morning, WS!

Thank you so much for participating in yesterday’s reflection on Proverbs 17. Your insights and shared thoughts truly help build a space where wisdom grows and hearts stay connected.

Today, let’s dive into Proverbs 18 — a powerful chapter that speaks to the weight of our words, the value of listening, and the wisdom of humility.

June 17 - Proverbs 17 - LIGHT OR LEAN IN

Hello Wisdom Seekers! 🌟

Today we’re in Proverbs 17, a chapter that speaks deeply about relationships, restraint, wisdom, and the strength of silence.

📖 Take time to prayerfully read the chapter, then choose your reflection path:

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✅ OPTION 1: LIGHT 🕯️

Choose ONE letter from L.I.G.H.T. for a quick reflection — perfect for busy days when you still want to stay connected.

🔆 L.I.G.H.T. – For Busy Days (Inspired by Proverbs 17)

L – Learn
📖 What did you learn about wisdom or relationships today?
👉 “Today I learned that _______________.”
(e.g., “It’s better to stay silent than to speak without wisdom” – Prov. 17:28)

I – Insight
💡 What did God reveal about your own words, friendships, or reactions?
👉 “God showed me that I need to _______________.”
(e.g., “I’ve been too quick to speak in conflict situations.”)

G – Growth
🌱 Where do you want to grow based on this chapter?
👉 “I want to grow in _______________.”
(e.g., patience, peace-making, listening more.)

H – Help
🙏 What area of your relationships or responses do you need help in?
👉 “Lord, help me to _______________.”
(e.g., “Hold my tongue when I want to lash out.”)

T – Thank
❤️ What are you thankful for after reading Proverbs 17?
👉 “Today I thank God for _______________.”
(e.g., “friends who love at all times — Prov. 17:17”)

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✅ OPTION 2: LEAN IN 🌿

Choose TWO or MORE letters from L.E.A.N. I.N. if you're ready to go deeper and reflect more personally.

🌿 L.E.A.N. I.N. – For Deeper Reflection (Inspired by Proverbs 17)

L – Look
🔍 What verse in Proverbs 17 stood out most to you?
👉 “The verse that caught my attention was _______________ .”
(e.g., Proverbs 17:1 — “Better is a dry morsel with quietness…” 

E – Examine
🪞 What did this verse reveal about your relationships, speech, or emotions?
👉 “This verse made me realize I need to examine _______________.”
(e.g., how I handle tension in the home.)

A – Align
⚖️ How can your words, attitudes, or actions better reflect God’s wisdom from this chapter?
👉 “I can align myself today by _______________.”
(e.g., choosing silence over stirring conflict — Prov. 17:14.)

N – Name
📝 What is one step you can take today toward applying this wisdom?
👉 “One step I can take today is _______________.”
(e.g., praying before responding in a tense conversation.)

I – Invite
🙏 How do you need the Holy Spirit’s help today?
👉 “Holy Spirit, I invite You to help me _______________.”
(e.g., respond gently when corrected — Prov. 17:10.)

N – Notice
👣 Where did you see or sense God working today as you applied this wisdom?
👉 “I noticed God working in me or around me when _______________.”
(e.g., I held back from a harsh reply and felt peace instead.)

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📝 Share your response(s) in the comment section below, and consider revisiting the blog later to read what others shared and interact with them! Let’s grow together in wisdom, encouragement, and application.

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💬 Quote of the Day – Inspired by Proverbs 17

"Silence isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom dressed in humility.

In a loud world, the quiet soul often hears God best."

🕯️.🌱. JUNE 16 - PROVERBS 16. LIGHT OR LEAN-IN

“Small disciplines
repeated with consistency every day
lead to great achievements
gained slowly over time.”

John C. Maxwell:

Proverbs 15 — A Soft Answer, A Wise Heart

Daily Growth Through
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Good "Worship Celebration" Day, Wisdom Seekers,

Welcome to Day 15 of our Proverbs journey in June! Today’s chapter gently challenges us to think about how we respond, speak, and receive correction—all deeply connected to our temperament and our transformation in Christ.

To support your growth and meet you right where you are, we’re offering two participation options.

🔹 Option 1: L.I.G.H.T. — Choose just ONE simple action.

🔹 Option 2: L.E.A.N.-I.N. — Choose ONE or more thoughtful prompts for deeper reflection.

🔹 You can switch between options daily or combine them—whatever works for your season.

🌸 Whether you share a full reflection or simply say, “I read,” know this—your voice matters, and your journey is meaningful. Every step you take is part of your transformation, and we’re cheering you on. 💚 Don’t worry about how much others are posting—just read, receive, and be refreshed. This space isn’t about comparison or competition—it’s about complementing each other as we grow in wisdom together.

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📖 Today’s Chapter: Proverbs 15

“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” — Proverbs 15:1
“The tongue of the wise makes knowledge acceptable…” — Proverbs 15:2
“A soothing tongue is a tree of life…” — Proverbs 15:4
“A person finds joy in giving an apt reply—how good is a timely word!” — Proverbs 15:23
“Whoever heeds life-giving correction will be at home among the wise.” — Proverbs 15:31

🌱 Gentle Reflection:
Today’s verses are full of heart checks. Take a moment to quietly consider:

• How does your temperament handle correction?

• Do your words build up or stir conflict?

• Are you slow to speak, quick to listen, or the other way around?

You don’t need to post answers to these—just allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you through them.

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✅ Option 1: L.I.G.H.T. Involvement

(Quick & Simple—Choose only ONE to post in the comments)

Letter	What to Post	Sample Response
L	Leave a verse that stood out	“The verse that stood out to me today is … ”
I	Indicate you read the blog	“I read the blog.”
G	Glance at the reflection question	“I glanced at the reflection question.”
H	Highlight one word/phrase	“The word that struck me is … ”
T	Take a moment to stay connected	“Hello everyone!”

🕯️ Perfect for busy days or quiet moments when you just want to stay close.

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💬 Option 2: L.E.A.N.-I.N. Involvement

(Go Deeper—Choose ONE or more prompts to reflect on and optionally post)

These prompts are designed to help you pause, reflect, and allow the Holy Spirit to guide your transformation. You do not need to answer all (or any) in the comments unless led—just reflect as part of your process:

Letter	Reflection Questions	Focus
L	Look into today’s Proverbs:  What verse speaks directly to your         temperament?	Awareness
E	Examine your heart: Is there an area your temperament that is         being challenged or corrected today?	Honesty
A	Apply one verse: How could this wisdom change your reactions,         words, or thinking?	Application
N	Notice something new: Is there a new mindset, response,         or habit to embrace?	Renewal
I	Invite the Holy Spirit: Where is He gently nudging you to yield         or grow?	Surrender
N	Nurture your growth: What will help you walk this out         —prayer,  journaling, or action?	Consistency

🌿 Take your time with these. Transformation isn’t rushed—it’s walked out, step by step.

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📝 Your Response:

1. Choose your option: L.I.G.H.T., L.E.A.N.-I.N., or a blend.

2. Post your response in the comments below—even just “I read” counts.

3. Encourage someone else with a reply, emoji, or uplifting word if you're able.

📌 As we read Proverbs 15, let’s ask God for gentle answers, wise tongues, and hearts open to correction. This is how He shapes our temperaments into Christlikeness.

We’re growing together—one Proverb at a time.

A great day to all!