TEMPERAMENT TRANSFORMATON REFLECTION - JUNE 19 - PROVERBS 19

Today's Reading Proverbs 19

Dear Wisdom Seekers,

As we continue growing in the Word and allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our temperaments, we turn our attention to Proverbs 19—a chapter rich with practical wisdom about patience, planning, correction, discipline, and listening to advice.

This chapter highlights the difference between hasty, impulsive behaviour and Spirit-led wisdom. It reminds us that many are the plans in our hearts, but only God’s purpose prevails (v.21). Whether you tend to move too fast, speak too quickly, avoid action, or wrestle with perfectionism—Proverbs 19 gently guides us to slow down, listen, and live wisely.

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📖 Before You Begin:

Take a few quiet moments to prayerfully read all of Proverbs 19. Ask the Holy Spirit to highlight which verses speak directly to your temperament or current situation. Let the Word settle in your heart before you begin reflecting.

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PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING

✨ Reflection Instructions:

After you read the chapter, go ahead and answer all the reflection questions for either LIGHT or LEAN-IN. There are some optional answers to help you get started or give you ideas. 

If you’re feeling it and want to do both, that’s great too! And don’t worry about sticking to the suggestions—feel free to write your own thoughts or change things up however you like.

📝 How to Share:
Simply type or copy and paste your answers into the blog. 

🌱 At the end, take a moment to reread your answers as a whole. Look for patterns of growth, areas of conviction, or reasons to give thanks. Your responses are part of your personal transformation journey—and they matter.

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Ready to reflect? Scroll down to begin.
📖 Let wisdom shape you today—one verse, one reflection, one surrender at a time.

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🔗 LIGHT Reflection – Proverbs 19

L – Learn

Proverbs 19:20 — “Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.”

What have you recently learned about how your temperament is beginning to respond better to correction or godly advice?

• I’ve started slowing down before reacting when I receive correction.

• Instead of feeling defensive, I now try to reflect on what’s being said.

• I’m learning that accepting advice shows strength, not weakness.

• I’ve begun to appreciate that discipline is God’s way of protecting my growth.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

I – Insight

Proverbs 19:11 — “A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.”

What new insight has the Holy Spirit given you about how you're developing more patience or emotional maturity?

• I realized that not every offense needs a reaction.

• It’s getting easier to pause when something frustrates me.

• I'm learning that overlooking minor offenses is actually a sign of wisdom.

• God is teaching me to value peace over proving a point.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

G – Grateful

Proverbs 19:8 — “The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.”

What wisdom from Proverbs 19 are you especially grateful for because it’s helping you change?

• I’m grateful that slowing down helps me avoid mistakes.

• Wisdom is teaching me that God’s plans are better than mine.

• I’m thankful for the Holy Spirit’s reminders to think before I speak.

• I now see how wisdom guards my relationships and decisions.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

H – Highlight

Proverbs 19:21 — “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”

Which verse stood out to you, and how is it guiding your personal growth?

• Verse 21 reminded me to trust God even when my plans fall apart.

• Verse 2 made me pause—I’m learning not to rush decisions.

• Verse 11 stood out—I’m growing in letting go of offenses.

• Verse 20 encouraged me to welcome advice instead of resisting it.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

 T – Takeaway

Proverbs 19:2 — “Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes.”

What’s your biggest takeaway from today’s reflection that shows transformation in progress?

• I’m learning to combine my energy with wisdom.

• God is teaching me that patience is part of power.

• I now see that rushing often leads to regret.

• Slowing down has helped me hear God more clearly.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________
  
  
  
  
  

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🌿 LEAN-IN Reflection – Proverbs 19

L – Look

What verse in Proverbs 19 most revealed growth in your temperament this week?

• I’m beginning to notice how often I act in haste, and verse 2 reminded me to pause more often.

• Verse 20 showed me how I’ve become more open to godly advice instead of resisting it.

• I’m learning to let go of small offenses, and verse 11 affirmed that this is wisdom taking root.

• When I read verse 21, I felt peace—it’s getting easier to release my plans and trust God’s purpose.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

E – Examine

How is the Holy Spirit helping you see patterns that are being transformed?

• I’ve been more aware of when irritation rises, and I’m catching myself before reacting harshly.

• Instead of avoiding conflict, I’ve started addressing things gently but directly.

• I’m less obsessed with getting everything perfect—I’m learning to move with grace, not pressure.

• When I notice myself retreating in silence, I now try to speak up with love instead.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

A – Align

Where are your words or behaviours starting to align more with God’s truth?

• I’m being more honest and less tempted to exaggerate to sound impressive.

• I’ve been slowing down my speech so I can speak the truth in love, not in frustration.

• When I feel tempted to stay quiet to avoid awkwardness, I ask God to help me be truthful anyway.

• I’m beginning to realize that silence isn’t always wise—sometimes withholding the truth is also misleading.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

N – Name a Next Step

What small but specific next step is God calling you to take this week?

• I need to finish a task I’ve been avoiding—it’s time to follow through.

• There’s a conversation I’ve been dodging, and I believe God is asking me to speak in love.

• My mornings need to begin with God again—starting tomorrow, I’ll give Him the first 15 minutes.

• To grow in discipline, I’ll create small goals and ask a friend to keep me accountable.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

I – Invite

Invite the Holy Spirit into one specific area of your temperament this week.

• Holy Spirit, I surrender my need to control outcomes—teach me how to rest in You.

• I’ve grown too passive in some areas; I invite You to stir me to act when I’d rather delay.

• Please transform my emotional reactions into calm, Christlike responses.

• Free me from people-pleasing—I want to live anchored in Your truth, not others’ opinions.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: _________________________________

N – Note

Note one recent area of visible growth.

• I’m seeing more patience in how I respond when things don’t go as planned.

• Lately, I’ve paused more often to pray before reacting—and that’s growth for me.

• The Lord is softening my pride and making room for humility in everyday moments.

• For once, I’m finishing things I start—and I know that’s the Spirit strengthening me.

• 🖋️ Or write your own: ________________________________

Wishing everyone a terrific Thursday! Stay focused and consistent.

Kindly come over to the chat and let me know if you enjoyed this Reflective Report on your Temperament Transformation.   I'm considering using a similar format for July, unless another idea comes to mind. Thanks!

June 18 - 🗣️ “The tongue has the power of life and death.” — Proverbs 18:21

🌞 Good morning, WS!

Thank you so much for participating in yesterday’s reflection on Proverbs 17. Your insights and shared thoughts truly help build a space where wisdom grows and hearts stay connected.

Today, let’s dive into Proverbs 18 — a powerful chapter that speaks to the weight of our words, the value of listening, and the wisdom of humility.

June 17 - Proverbs 17 - LIGHT OR LEAN IN

Hello Wisdom Seekers! 🌟

Today we’re in Proverbs 17, a chapter that speaks deeply about relationships, restraint, wisdom, and the strength of silence.

📖 Take time to prayerfully read the chapter, then choose your reflection path:

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✅ OPTION 1: LIGHT 🕯️

Choose ONE letter from L.I.G.H.T. for a quick reflection — perfect for busy days when you still want to stay connected.

🔆 L.I.G.H.T. – For Busy Days (Inspired by Proverbs 17)

L – Learn
📖 What did you learn about wisdom or relationships today?
👉 “Today I learned that _______________.”
(e.g., “It’s better to stay silent than to speak without wisdom” – Prov. 17:28)

I – Insight
💡 What did God reveal about your own words, friendships, or reactions?
👉 “God showed me that I need to _______________.”
(e.g., “I’ve been too quick to speak in conflict situations.”)

G – Growth
🌱 Where do you want to grow based on this chapter?
👉 “I want to grow in _______________.”
(e.g., patience, peace-making, listening more.)

H – Help
🙏 What area of your relationships or responses do you need help in?
👉 “Lord, help me to _______________.”
(e.g., “Hold my tongue when I want to lash out.”)

T – Thank
❤️ What are you thankful for after reading Proverbs 17?
👉 “Today I thank God for _______________.”
(e.g., “friends who love at all times — Prov. 17:17”)

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✅ OPTION 2: LEAN IN 🌿

Choose TWO or MORE letters from L.E.A.N. I.N. if you're ready to go deeper and reflect more personally.

🌿 L.E.A.N. I.N. – For Deeper Reflection (Inspired by Proverbs 17)

L – Look
🔍 What verse in Proverbs 17 stood out most to you?
👉 “The verse that caught my attention was _______________ .”
(e.g., Proverbs 17:1 — “Better is a dry morsel with quietness…” 

E – Examine
🪞 What did this verse reveal about your relationships, speech, or emotions?
👉 “This verse made me realize I need to examine _______________.”
(e.g., how I handle tension in the home.)

A – Align
⚖️ How can your words, attitudes, or actions better reflect God’s wisdom from this chapter?
👉 “I can align myself today by _______________.”
(e.g., choosing silence over stirring conflict — Prov. 17:14.)

N – Name
📝 What is one step you can take today toward applying this wisdom?
👉 “One step I can take today is _______________.”
(e.g., praying before responding in a tense conversation.)

I – Invite
🙏 How do you need the Holy Spirit’s help today?
👉 “Holy Spirit, I invite You to help me _______________.”
(e.g., respond gently when corrected — Prov. 17:10.)

N – Notice
👣 Where did you see or sense God working today as you applied this wisdom?
👉 “I noticed God working in me or around me when _______________.”
(e.g., I held back from a harsh reply and felt peace instead.)

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📝 Share your response(s) in the comment section below, and consider revisiting the blog later to read what others shared and interact with them! Let’s grow together in wisdom, encouragement, and application.

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💬 Quote of the Day – Inspired by Proverbs 17

"Silence isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom dressed in humility.

In a loud world, the quiet soul often hears God best."

🕯️.🌱. JUNE 16 - PROVERBS 16. LIGHT OR LEAN-IN

“Small disciplines
repeated with consistency every day
lead to great achievements
gained slowly over time.”

John C. Maxwell:

Proverbs 15 — A Soft Answer, A Wise Heart

Daily Growth Through
L.I.G.H.T.
or
L.E.A.N.-I.N.

Good "Worship Celebration" Day, Wisdom Seekers,

Welcome to Day 15 of our Proverbs journey in June! Today’s chapter gently challenges us to think about how we respond, speak, and receive correction—all deeply connected to our temperament and our transformation in Christ.

To support your growth and meet you right where you are, we’re offering two participation options.

🔹 Option 1: L.I.G.H.T. — Choose just ONE simple action.

🔹 Option 2: L.E.A.N.-I.N. — Choose ONE or more thoughtful prompts for deeper reflection.

🔹 You can switch between options daily or combine them—whatever works for your season.

🌸 Whether you share a full reflection or simply say, “I read,” know this—your voice matters, and your journey is meaningful. Every step you take is part of your transformation, and we’re cheering you on. 💚 Don’t worry about how much others are posting—just read, receive, and be refreshed. This space isn’t about comparison or competition—it’s about complementing each other as we grow in wisdom together.

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📖 Today’s Chapter: Proverbs 15

“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” — Proverbs 15:1
“The tongue of the wise makes knowledge acceptable…” — Proverbs 15:2
“A soothing tongue is a tree of life…” — Proverbs 15:4
“A person finds joy in giving an apt reply—how good is a timely word!” — Proverbs 15:23
“Whoever heeds life-giving correction will be at home among the wise.” — Proverbs 15:31

🌱 Gentle Reflection:
Today’s verses are full of heart checks. Take a moment to quietly consider:

• How does your temperament handle correction?

• Do your words build up or stir conflict?

• Are you slow to speak, quick to listen, or the other way around?

You don’t need to post answers to these—just allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you through them.

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✅ Option 1: L.I.G.H.T. Involvement

(Quick & Simple—Choose only ONE to post in the comments)

Letter	What to Post	Sample Response
L	Leave a verse that stood out	“The verse that stood out to me today is … ”
I	Indicate you read the blog	“I read the blog.”
G	Glance at the reflection question	“I glanced at the reflection question.”
H	Highlight one word/phrase	“The word that struck me is … ”
T	Take a moment to stay connected	“Hello everyone!”

🕯️ Perfect for busy days or quiet moments when you just want to stay close.

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💬 Option 2: L.E.A.N.-I.N. Involvement

(Go Deeper—Choose ONE or more prompts to reflect on and optionally post)

These prompts are designed to help you pause, reflect, and allow the Holy Spirit to guide your transformation. You do not need to answer all (or any) in the comments unless led—just reflect as part of your process:

Letter	Reflection Questions	Focus
L	Look into today’s Proverbs:  What verse speaks directly to your         temperament?	Awareness
E	Examine your heart: Is there an area your temperament that is         being challenged or corrected today?	Honesty
A	Apply one verse: How could this wisdom change your reactions,         words, or thinking?	Application
N	Notice something new: Is there a new mindset, response,         or habit to embrace?	Renewal
I	Invite the Holy Spirit: Where is He gently nudging you to yield         or grow?	Surrender
N	Nurture your growth: What will help you walk this out         —prayer,  journaling, or action?	Consistency

🌿 Take your time with these. Transformation isn’t rushed—it’s walked out, step by step.

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📝 Your Response:

1. Choose your option: L.I.G.H.T., L.E.A.N.-I.N., or a blend.

2. Post your response in the comments below—even just “I read” counts.

3. Encourage someone else with a reply, emoji, or uplifting word if you're able.

📌 As we read Proverbs 15, let’s ask God for gentle answers, wise tongues, and hearts open to correction. This is how He shapes our temperaments into Christlikeness.

We’re growing together—one Proverb at a time.

A great day to all!

🌿 Proverbs 14 — Wisdom, Fear & Confidence 🌿

 

NEW:  Daily Growth Through

L.I.G.H.T.
or
L.E.A.N.-I.N.

Dear Wisdom Seekers,

Welcome to Day 14 of our June Proverbs journey! Today’s chapter invites us to notice how reverence for the Lord shapes confidence, steadies emotions, and guides every temperament toward wholeness in Christ.

To support your growth and meet you right where you are, we’re offering two participation options:

🔹 Option 1 — L.I.G.H.T. | Choose just ONE simple action.

🔹 Option 2 — L.E.A.N.-I.N. | Choose ONE or more thoughtful prompts for deeper reflection.

🔹 Feel free to switch between options or blend them—whatever fits your season.

🌸 Whether you post a full reflection or simply say, “I read,” remember—your voice matters. Every small step is part of your transformation, and we’re cheering you on. 💚 This space isn’t for comparison or competition—it’s for complementing one another as we grow in wisdom.

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📖 Today’s Chapter: Proverbs 14

“The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands.” — Pr 14:1
“There is a way which seems right to a person, but its end is the way of death.” — Pr 14:12
“In all labor there is profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.” — Pr 14:23
“In the fear of the LORD there is strong confidence, and His children will have refuge.” — Pr 14:26
“Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered exalts folly.” — Pr 14:29

🌱 Gentle Reflection
Pause with the Holy Spirit and simply ponder:

• Where does healthy reverence for God replace unhealthy fear in your temperament?

• Are your decisions building up or quietly tearing down?

• Do your daily actions match your words—bringing profit instead of empty talk?

(No need to post your answers—just let the Spirit speak.)

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Letter	What to Post	Sample Response
L	Leave a verse that stood out	“The verse that stood out to me today is …”
I	Indicate you read the blog	“I read the blog.”
G	Glance at the reflection question	“I glanced at the reflection question.”
H	Highlight one word/phrase	“The word that struck me is …”
T	Take a moment to stay connected	“Hello everyone!”

📖. June 13 - Proverbs 13

📖 Temperament Transformation
Self-Reflection Quiz — Proverbs 13

Dear Wisdom Seekers,

Before we begin today’s activity, take a few moments to prayerfully read Proverbs 13. Invite the Holy Spirit to search your heart and guide you into deeper awareness of the areas He is shaping in your temperament.

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🧭 About Proverbs 13
This chapter continues Solomon’s wisdom-filled contrasts between the righteous and the wicked, the wise and the foolish, and the diligent and the lazy. It speaks powerfully to the importance of discipline, the influence of our words, and the company we keep.

🔑 Some key themes include:

• The blessings of correction

• The cost of laziness

• The rewards of perseverance

• The influence of relationships

• The fruit of wisdom in daily choices

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💡 Challenge for Today:
Let the Word of God be a mirror, not just a window. Ask yourself:
“What direction is my temperament naturally pulling me—and what direction is the Spirit leading me?”
True transformation happens as we submit our natural responses to the supernatural guidance of the Holy Spirit.

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✅ Instructions:
Kindly read and answer the five questions below and share in the comment section the one that truly stood out to you—and if you feel like sharing why, please do so.

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📝 Self-Reflection Quiz — Proverbs 13

1. “A wise son accepts his father’s discipline, but a scoffer does not listen to rebuke.” – Proverbs 13:1
   When you are disciplined or corrected, how do you usually respond?

• A) I receive it and try to improve, but I may appear stern or distant.

• B) I try to laugh it off or avoid the heaviness by shifting the tone.

• C) I take it very seriously and replay it often in my mind.

• D) I quietly take it in, but may struggle to act on it right away.

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2. “One who guards his mouth protects his life; one who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.” – Proverbs 13:3
   How do you tend to use your words in challenging situations?

• A) I’m quick to speak, often to fix or take charge of the moment.

• B) I say what’s on my mind and process out loud—even if it’s messy.

• C) I may withdraw and say very little to avoid saying the wrong thing.

• D) I try to stay peaceful, sometimes saying nothing to avoid conflict.

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3. “The soul of the lazy one craves and gets nothing, but the soul of the diligent is made prosperous.” – Proverbs 13:4
   How do you handle tasks or goals you want to accomplish?

• A) I plan and push through efficiently—I don’t like excuses.

• B) I start enthusiastically but sometimes lack the follow-through.

• C) I’m consistent, though I may overthink and delay starting.

• D) I need a nudge or some accountability to keep me going.

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4. “One who walks with wise people will be wise, but a companion of fools will suffer harm.” – Proverbs 13:20
   How do you choose the people you surround yourself with?

• A) I gravitate to strong, goal-driven individuals who challenge me.

• B) I enjoy lively, spontaneous people who lift my mood.

• C) I prefer deep, thoughtful people with whom I can connect emotionally.

• D) I value calm, easy-going people who bring peace and avoid drama.

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5. “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but desire fulfilled is a tree of life.” – Proverbs 13:12
   How do you respond when your hopes or expectations are delayed?

• A) I immediately start looking for new strategies or solutions.

• B) I become discouraged but try to stay upbeat or distracted.

• C) I feel it deeply and may quietly withdraw to process alone.

• D) I stay steady but may silently carry disappointment longer than others realize.

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🌿 Remember: These questions are not about labeling yourself—they're meant to help you invite the Holy Spirit deeper into your temperament journey. We are each being shaped day by day to reflect the character of Christ.

🗨️ Which ONE question or response stood out to you the most?
Share it in the comments—and feel free to say why. 💬

A wonderful day to everyone!

📖. June 12 - Proverbs 12

Greetings, Wisdom Seekers,

Before diving into today’s reflection, take a moment to prayerfully read Proverbs 12. Ask the Holy Spirit to speak to you through the Word and reveal the areas in your temperament where He desires transformation.

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🧭 About Proverbs 12

This chapter offers a striking contrast between the wise and the foolish, the diligent and the lazy, the truthful and the deceptive. It reminds us that true righteousness isn’t just what we say—but how we live. Wisdom shapes our speech, our work, our relationships, and our responses to correction.

💡 Challenge for Today:
Let the Word of God examine your natural tendencies. As you read, ask: Is my temperament aligned with the character of Christ? Transformation is already in progress through the power of the Holy Spirit—but it requires your daily yes to His refining work.

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✅ Instructions

Kindly read and answer the five questions below and share in the comment section the one that truly stood out to you—and if you feel like sharing why, please do so.

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📝 Self-Reflection Quiz — Proverbs 12

1. “Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but one who hates rebuke is stupid.”
   – Proverbs 12:1
   How do you usually respond when someone corrects you?

A) I struggle to accept correction and may become defensive or shut down.

B) I often joke it off or try to change the topic to lighten the moment.
C) I reflect on it deeply, but I may internalize it too harshly.
D) I try to stay calm and listen, though I sometimes avoid confrontation altogether.

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2. “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is like rottenness in his bones.” – Proverbs 12:4
   How do you build others up in your close relationships?

A) By helping them succeed and pushing them to grow, even if it sounds blunt.

B) By encouraging them with joy and enthusiasm whenever I can.
C) By being loyal and dependable, showing love through quiet consistency.
D) By being thoughtful, offering kind words and meaningful actions in private.

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3. “The words of the wicked lie in wait for blood, but the mouth of the upright will rescue them.” – Proverbs 12:6
   How do you use your words when someone wrongs you?

A) I speak directly and boldly to address the issue.

B) I might share it with others to get it off my chest and feel heard.
C) I replay the situation in my mind, but may not say anything.
D) I seek peace, even if that means not speaking up right away.

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4. “The lazy one does not roast his prey, but the precious possession of a person is diligence.”
   – Proverbs 12:27
   How do you handle responsibilities and follow-through?

A) I push until the task is done—no excuses.

B) I need excitement or inspiration or I lose focus quickly.
C) I may delay starting, but once I begin, I stick with it quietly.
D) I tend to go at a slow pace and may need encouragement to finish.

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5. “Anxiety in a person’s heart weighs it down, but a good word makes it glad.”
   – Proverbs 12:25
   When someone is going through a hard time, how do you respond?

A) I offer solutions or plans to help fix it.

B) I cheer them up with laughter or uplifting words.
C) I empathize deeply and offer my silent support.
D) I stay calm and give comforting, reassuring encouragement.

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🌿 Remember: These answers aren’t to label you—they’re to help you grow. We’re all being transformed into Christ’s likeness, one wise choice at a time.

Let the Word do its work. Let the Spirit do His refining. And let your “yes” to God today be louder than yesterday’s silence.

Which question or answer stood out to you the most? Share it in the comments—and if led, tell us why. 💬

June 11 - Proverbs 11 - Dear Wisdom Seekers!

Dear Wisdom Seekers,

As we continue our journey toward Christlike transformation, let us reflect on the treasures within Proverbs 11. This chapter paints a powerful picture of the kind of upright, humble, and wise living that the Holy Spirit produces in us when we yield to His leading. It contrasts the righteous and the wicked, the humble and the proud, the generous and the greedy—and it reminds us that character matters deeply in the eyes of God.

Each of you brings a unique temperament to this journey. And each temperament has strengths to steward and weaknesses to surrender. Let's take a closer look at what Proverbs 11 may be whispering to your heart.

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🔴 To the Choleric Wisdom Seekers

"When pride comes, then comes dishonor, but with the humble is wisdom." – Proverbs 11:2 (NASB)

Dear Cholerics,
Your God-given drive and leadership are needed in the Kingdom. But beware of letting your confidence slip into pride or self-sufficiency. The Holy Spirit is inviting you to exchange control for surrender, dominance for discernment. Humility doesn't weaken your strength—it redeems it. Let God guide your ambition and purify your motives.

Ask yourself: What decision am I making right now that needs to be filtered through humility rather than personal will?

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🟡 To the Sanguine Wisdom Seekers

"A gracious woman attains honor, and ruthless men attain riches." – Proverbs 11:16 (NASB)

Dear Sanguines,
Your enthusiasm and charm light up the room. But sometimes the craving for approval can cloud your discernment. God calls you to live with integrity, not just likability. The Holy Spirit wants to help you mature your joyful heart into gracious wisdom that lasts beyond the moment. Choose truth over flattery, even when it's hard.

Ask yourself: Am I seeking God’s applause, or people’s approval?

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🔵 To the Melancholic Wisdom Seekers

"The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the perversity of the treacherous will destroy them." – Proverbs 11:3 (NASB)

Dear Melancholics,
Your deep thinking and moral compass are a gift to the Body of Christ. But the weight of idealism can become a burden if you don’t allow grace to balance truth. Don’t let fear of imperfection paralyze your progress. The Spirit wants to guide your heart gently, not harshly. Allow His integrity to lead—not just your analysis.

Ask yourself: Have I let fear of failure keep me from moving forward in faith?

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🟢 To the Phlegmatic Wisdom Seekers

"The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and the one who is wise gains souls." – Proverbs 11:30 (NASB)

Dear Phlegmatics,
Your peaceful, steady presence is a quiet strength. But comfort can become compromise if you avoid confrontation or hard decisions. God is stirring up a holy boldness in you—not to be loud, but to be faithfully present and fruit-bearing. The Holy Spirit wants to transform passive peace into active peacemaking. Step up, speak truth, and sow life.

Ask yourself: What “small” step of obedience have I delayed that could yield eternal fruit?

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💠 In Closing…
Proverbs 11 is not just a contrast between good and evil—it’s an invitation to become more like Jesus through the Word and the Spirit. As we meditate on this chapter, may each of us—regardless of temperament—surrender our natural tendencies to God's supernatural transforming power.

Let the Holy Spirit convict you where needed, comfort you where weary, and challenge you where you've become complacent. He is faithful to finish the work He started in you.

📝 Let’s reflect together: What part of this letter resonated most deeply with you and why? How is God inviting you to grow through Proverbs 11 this week - share the verse or comment further?

💛 Powered by the Word. Transformed by the Spirit.

A wonderful Wednesday to all!

June 10 - Proverbs 10 - 💬 Words, Ways, and Wisdom

💬 Words, Ways, and Wisdom

Proverbs 10 Reflection Blog | Wisdom Seekers

🌿 “The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life…”
— Proverbs 10:11

🌿 “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
— Mark 12:31

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👭 A Morning Conversation Among Sisters

This morning, five of our Wisdom Seekers sisters—Claudia, Laura, Hazel, Debbie, and Alynthia—gathered for coffee and conversation after last night’s study on Mark 12:31. What started as a recap turned into a Spirit-led reflection on Proverbs 10 and the power of walking in wisdom.

Claudia opened with a gentle thought:
“Mark 12:31 sounds so simple, but it cut deep when we discussed how temperament affects the way we love.”

The group nodded in agreement, especially as they recalled Tim LaHaye’s teaching that temperament is rooted in the natural man—not the spiritual one. That means we don’t get to excuse bad behavior as "just our temperament."

Laura, a Melancholic-Phlegmatic, added:
“I can’t excuse my silence or overthinking just because I’m Melancholic. I need to be Spirit-led.”

Hazel, the Melancholic-Sanguine blend, chimed in thoughtfully:
“My quiet reflection and outgoing side often clash—but real love isn’t about preference. It’s about obedience.”

Then came Debbie, our vibrant Sanguine-Choleric, who laughed but admitted with sincerity:

“I love people—but my Choleric edge? Whew! If I don’t pray over my words, I can bulldoze instead of bless.”

The group turned their hearts toward today’s chapter—Proverbs 10—which spoke volumes about how wisdom is shown through speech, diligence, integrity, and kindness.

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💡 Key Wisdom Moments from the Group:

🔹 “The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life…”
— Claudia reflected on the power of words. She asked herself, “Am I speaking life, or just staying quiet and calling it wisdom?”

🔹 “In a multitude of words, sin is not lacking…”
— Debbie felt that one deeply. “That verse was me. My temperament likes to talk—so I need extra discipline to be wise with words.”

🔹 “One who walks in integrity walks securely…”
— Alynthia shared this verse reminded her that loving well starts with living right. “When my walk is secure, my love becomes sincere.”

🔹 “Blessings are on the head of the righteous…”
— Laura connected this to the way wisdom protects and multiplies good in our relationships.

🔹 “The wise of heart will receive commands…”
— Hazel added, “Humility is the foundation of wisdom. When we stay teachable, we stay transformable.”

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✨ Today’s Transformation Quote:

"Wisdom is knowing the right path to take.

Integrity is taking it."

— M.H. McKee

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🧐 Reflection Questions: (Feel free to elaborate on your answers.)

1. Which character in today’s skit did you relate to the most?

🟡 Was it Debbie, realizing she needs to slow down and guard her words?
🔵 Was it Hazel, caught between caution and connection in expressing love?
🟢 Was it Claudia, wondering if silence is truly wisdom or just self-protection?
🔵 Was it Laura, recognizing that spiritual growth means surrendering even our strengths?
🟢 Was it Alynthia, discovering that integrity lays the foundation for how we love?

2. What area is God highlighting for you to apply wisdom today?

A) Be more careful with my words and how I speak to others.
B) Practice diligence and not rush through tasks.
C) Show kindness and righteousness even in small ways.
D) Walk with more humility and integrity in daily life.

📝 Share your answers in the comments below. 

Let’s learn from one another!  Feel free to expand on your answer.

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🔥 Wisdom matters. Let’s walk it out with love. 

✨ June 9 - Proverbs 9

✨ Today’s Transformation Quote:

"Wisdom is knowing the right path to take.
Integrity is taking it."

— M.H. McKee

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🌿 Good day, dear Wisdom Seekers! 🌿

Today we enter into a powerful invitation from Proverbs 9 — a choice between Wisdom and Folly. Both call out, but only one leads to life.

📖 Today's Proverbs Reading: Proverbs 9

Take time today to prayerfully read the full chapter of Proverbs 9. Notice how Wisdom invites with substance, truth, and life, while Folly offers empty promises that lead to destruction. Reflect on how this chapter calls you to make deliberate, daily choices for wisdom.

📚 About Proverbs 9

Proverbs 9 beautifully contrasts two voices: Wisdom and Folly. Wisdom prepares a feast and calls all to partake, offering life and understanding. Folly is loud and seductive, drawing the naive toward ruin. The chapter reminds us that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and it encourages us to walk carefully, choosing the path that leads to life.

🔍 Key Theme for Transformation:

Transformation is not only about hearing wisdom — it’s about choosing it. Every day presents us with decisions: the way of life or the way of folly. Proverbs 9 reminds us that a wise heart listens, discerns, and follows God’s call.

✨ Transformation Verse for Today:

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.”
— Proverbs 9:10 (NASB)

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👭 Today’s Interaction: Wisdom in Conversation

Hazel and Laura are two Wisdom Seekers chatting after reading Proverbs 9.

Hazel:
"Laura, what stood out to you most today in Proverbs 9?"

Laura:
"I was struck by how both Wisdom and Folly are calling out. It really made me think — whose voice am I tuning in to every day without even realizing it?"

Hazel:
"Exactly. And I love how Wisdom prepares a table — it’s full, rich, and satisfying. Folly offers nothing but emptiness."

Laura:
"Yes! Let’s tag a sister who hasn’t posted yet. I bet there’s someone just waiting for a gentle nudge."

Hazel:
"And it’s super simple to post on the blog — you can copy, paste, or type out your answers."

Laura:
"And for those who want to add a little extra, that’s great too. I already know who I’m tagging."

Hazel:
"Tell me!"

Laura:
"Check the blog later and see. I got to go, my ride is waiting!" 😀

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🧐 Today’s Reflection Questions:

What decision is God asking you to make through Wisdom today?  Post one answer in the blog:

A) Slow down and listen before making quick decisions.

B) Choose wisdom even when folly seems easier.

C) Focus on the fear of the Lord as your foundation for decisions.

D) Discern between what looks good and what truly is good.

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✍️ "I" Statement: (Choose one: True / False / Sometimes / I don’t know)

I am choosing wisdom daily and trusting God to lead me in the right path.
(True / False / Sometimes / I don’t know)

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🌸 Your Turn:
📖 Post below in the comments whether you read today’s chapter.

🩷 Tag a Sister Today:
Which Sister are you tagging today?
(Please do not tag someone who was already tagged. Let’s build one another up!)

🌼 Wishing you a day filled with wise choices and God’s clear direction!

Blessings on your journey today.