🛤️ Temperament Transformation
Through Proverbs 21
📖 Greetings, Wisdom Seekers!
Thank you for joining us in yesterday’s Proverbs reflection!
Before diving into today’s transformation guide, take a moment to prayerfully read Proverbs 21. Ask the Holy Spirit to highlight what He wants you to see—not just for knowledge, but for transformation. This chapter speaks to our motives, justice, speech, diligence, and how deeply God knows our hearts.
Whether you’re naturally bold, bubbly, analytical, or calm—the Spirit and the Word are working in you to shape a temperament that reflects Christ more clearly each day.
👉🏽 Be sure to read through all four temperament sections—don’t stop at your dominant one.
God often uses our secondary temperament to reveal blind spots or hidden strengths. Take time to reflect on both your primary and secondary temperaments for a deeper, more complete transformation experience. You may find the Holy Spirit speaking in unexpected ways!
🔴 CHOLERIC – Transformed Power through Surrender
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:2
“Every person’s way is right in his own eyes, but the Lord examines the hearts.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
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Surrender my drive to God’s direction, trusting His lead over my logic.
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Lead with righteousness, not just results—making integrity my true success.
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Guard my words with wisdom, speaking life instead of just commands.
🗯️ Affirmation: “I lead with purpose, but I yield to God’s wisdom.”
🟡 SANGUINE – Transformed Joy through Discernment
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:23
“One who guards his mouth and his tongue, guards his soul from troubles.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
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Practice timely silence, knowing when to speak and when to listen.
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Avoid shallow pleasures and seek joy that satisfies the soul.
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Choose wisdom over impulse, letting the Spirit guide my energy.
🗯️ Affirmation: “My joy is anchored in godly wisdom.”
🔵 MELANCHOLIC – Transformed Reflection through Trust
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:30
“There is no wisdom, no understanding, and no plan against the Lord.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
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Trust God’s sovereignty, especially when my plans fall short.
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Take Spirit-led action without overanalyzing or second-guessing.
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Let grace lead me, releasing perfectionism for peace.
🗯️ Affirmation: “God’s wisdom is greater than my plans.”
🟢 PHLEGMATIC – Transformed Peace through Purpose
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:25
“The desire of the lazy one puts him to death, for his hands refuse to work.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
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Say yes to disciplined action, even in the small, steady steps.
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Let my peace fuel productivity, not procrastination.
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Take quiet but bold steps forward, trusting the Spirit’s prompting.
🗯️ Affirmation: “My calm is empowered by Spirit-led action.”
💬 COMMENT INSTRUCTIONS:
📝 Now that you’ve explored all four temperaments:
✨ 1. Choose ONE “I will seek to” statement from your primary temperament—the one that most reflects your natural personality.
✨ 2. Do the same for your secondary temperament—the area where God may be gently shaping new growth.
🗣️ Post both statements in the comments.
(Optional: Share why they resonate with you today!)
🕊️ Final Thought – Proverbs 21:31
“The horse is prepared for the day of battle, but the victory belongs to the Lord.”
So prepare. Reflect. Respond. And above all—trust.
Transformation is a process, and the victory belongs to the Lord.
Blessings!
Good morning ladies!
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Temperament Transformation Through Proverbs 21
Melancholic/Choleric
🔵 MELANCHOLIC – Transformed Reflection through Trust
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:30 “There is no wisdom, no understanding, and no plan against the Lord.”
Transformation Focus
Melancholic – I will seek to Let grace lead me, releasing perfectionism for peace.
As a melancholic, I often feel like I have to meet some invisible standard to feel worthy or “enough.” I can be really hard on myself, always trying to get everything just right. But I’m learning that God isn’t asking me to be perfect, He’s asking me to let grace lead.
When I choose peace instead of pressure, I’m slowly learning to rest in His love, not my performance. It’s not easy, but it’s healing. Grace is helping me quiet the inner critic and simply be held by God.
Choleric – I will seek to Trust God’s sovereignty, especially when my plans fall short.
I naturally lean toward being thoughtful and detail-focused—I want things done well. But there’s also a part of me that likes to take charge, make plans, and see results.
So when things don’t go as planned, it hits me hard. I feel like I’ve failed, and I immediately try to figure out how to fix it.
But God is teaching me to trust His sovereignty, to let go of needing everything to go my way. It’s not easy for me to release control or be gentle with myself, but I’m learning that letting God lead isn’t weakness—it’s faith.
Even when my plans don’t work out, His purpose still stands. And that truth gives me peace.
🗯️ Affirmation: “God’s wisdom is greater than my plans.”
Have a wonderful day!
Hi Sis Cindy! I always like reading your reflections as a fellow melancholic!
DeleteI love this part where you said: When I choose peace instead of pressure, I’m slowly learning to rest in His love, not my performance. It’s not easy, but it’s healing. Grace is helping me quiet the inner critic and simply be held by God.
I need to remind myself of this - peace instead of pressure! Thanks for sharing~
I echo Sister Trudy in her comment to you: peace instead of pressure. It feels great when we simply let go and let God. Enjoy the peace of God my sister and thanks for sharing deeper.
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SANGUINE –
Transformed Joy through Discernment
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:23
Primary Temperament
“🟡 SANGUINE – Transformed Joy through Discernment
One who guards his mouth and his tongue, guards his soul from troubles.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
* Practice timely silence, knowing when to speak and when to listen.
I choose this because I’m seeing the importance of staying silent. The mere fact I might like to speak, the other person may just want me to quiet.
On Thursday my daughter got home 11:00pm from her school’s graduation. I really wanted to know how it went, but I noticed she was tired, and was not on the mood to talk at that moment. I decided to give her space.
I was not only being silent, but I was listening to the Spirit of God prompting me to refrain from talking. 🤫🤫
Secondly Temperament
🔴 CHOLERIC – Transformed Power through Surrender
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:2 “Every person’s way is right in his own eyes, but the Lord examines the hearts.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
* Surrender my drive to God’s direction, trusting His lead over my logic.
As I finished praying this morning, I heard the Spirit of God saying to me, “In all your ways acknowledge Me, and I will direct your path.” So seeing this as one of the Transformation Focus , I know This is a “God Moment”❤️
Have a Great Day ❤️❤️❤️
👏🏾 Excellent work listening to the Holy Spirit Sis Debbie!! This shows that you are truly allowing the Holy Spirit to transform your temperament. It is very good that you are listening to the Holy Spirit and not just keeping silent for the sake of keeping silent. As you perfectly said, " I was listening to the Spirit of God prompting me to refrain from talking." Continue to listen and obey the Holy Spirit's promptings!
Delete(Happy belated Wedding Anniversary ❤️)
Hmmm, did you finally find out Sister Debbie? How did waiting make you feel? Progress my sister!
DeleteThank you Dr. Truds. Greatly appreciate your encouraging word.
DeleteSister Penny. Yes, I did find out the following day. The answers I received from her was worth the waiting , Plus, it show me, I should never cross others boundaries, but respect it.
Good morning ladies
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Mel/Phleg
Proverbs 21
Temperament Transformation
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:30
“There is no wisdom, no understanding, and no plan against the Lord.”
* Take Spirit-led action without overanalyzing or second-guessing.
The desire of the lazy one puts him to death, for his hands refuse to work.”
* Take quiet but bold steps forward, trusting the Spirit’s prompting.
Affirmation: God’s wisdom is greater than my plans.”
Have a great day 🌺
Deborah
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MEL/PHLEG
PRO 21:
MEL: Transformed Reflection through Trust
Key verse prov 21: 30
There is no wisdom,no understsnding,no plan against the Lord.
Transgormation Focus:
I will seek to take Spirit- Led action without overanalizing or second guessing.
Affirmatiom:
God Wisdom is greater than my plans.
PHLEG:
TRANSFOMEDPEACE THROUGH PUPOSE.
Key verse:prov 21: 25.
The desire of the lazy one puts him to death,for his hands refuse to work.
TRANFORMATION:
I will seek to take quiet but bold steps forward trusting the Spirit prompting.
Affirmations:My Calm is empowered by Dpirit-led action.
Today just as i finish posting i experience my affirmations come to pass
❤Uall deeply
CHAAW........🤣
Amen! That's great the affirmations came to pass! As the Bible says, there is power in the tongue!!
DeleteWow! That's great Sister Deborah. Progress!!!
DeleteGood morning wisdom seekers!!
ReplyDeleteI hope everyone is having a great start to the day~
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:30
“There is no wisdom, no understanding, and no plan against the Lord.”
Melancholic Transformation Focus
I will seek to: Take Spirit-led action without overanalyzing or second-guessing.
- There are many times when I am prompted to take certain action, but i would overanalyze/second guess. Today I am going to focus on listening to the Holy Spirits lead and will 'just do it'. Whatever I am prompted to do, I will take quick action and do! I am seeing that overthinking can lead to procrastination.
Phlegmatic Transformation Focus
I will seek to: Say yes to disciplined action, even in the small, steady steps.
In addition to taking Spirit-led action without overanalyzing, I will take the disciplined action necessary to complete whatever I have to do. It really is a matter of taking small, steady steps. I've noticed that when I feel overwhelmed by all the things I have to do, taking time to just focus on completing one small step really helps get me going and keeps the momentum flowing.
Have a great day everyone
Yes indeed, overthinking can lead to procrastination so my prayer for you is that you will stick to your commitment to take quick action as deemed fit. Thanks for clarifying your responses.
DeleteGood morning Wisdom Seekers
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I read Proverbs 21
Phleg/Mel Transformed peace through purpose
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:25
:The desire of the lazy one puts him to death, for his hands refuse to work.”
As a Phlegmatic/ I will seek to: Let my peace fuel productivity, not procrastination.
Affirmation: “My calm is empowered by Spirit-led action.”
Melancholic
Key Verse: “There is wisdom, no understanding and no plan against the Lord.”
I will seek to: Trust God 's sovereignty, especially when my plans fall short.”
Affirmation: ”God 's wisdom is greater than my plans.”
Enjoy you all Saturday
Good afternoon wisdom seekers I trust everyone is having a great day.
ReplyDeletePROVERBS 21:23 He who guards his mouth and his tongue . Guard his soul from troubles.
Melancholic: transformed reflection through trust.
Key verse 21:30 There is no wisdom , no understanding, no plan against the Lord
Transformation Focus: I will take spirit - lead action with out over analyzing or second guessing.
Affirmation: "God's wisdom is greater than my plans".
Sanguine: Transformed joy through Discernment
Key Verse 21:23
He who guards his mouth and his tongue. Guards his soul from troubles.
Transformation Focus: Choose wisdom over impulse, letting the holy spirit guard my energy.
Affirmation: 'My joy is anchored in Godly wisdom".
enjoy the rest of the day,.
Good Saturday Wisdom Seekers,
ReplyDeletePrimary Temperament:
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
Take Spirit-Led actions without overanalyzing or second-guessing.
As a melancholic I struggle wondering if I should do this or that, or when I must take action. As a result I sabotage my own life, I hold myself back from moving forward. From now on I purposely make strides to take action when led to by the Spirit of God.
Secondary Temperament:
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
Take quiet but bold steps forward, trusting the Spirit’s prompting.
This statement resonates with me, I really do need to take bold steps forward, I have held myself back for far too long. I will stop doubting and trust that what I am about to do is in God’s will.
Say yes to small disciplined action, even in small steady steps.
To overcome overanalyzing and second guessing myself requires me to practice being disciplined in my actions.
Affirmation: “God’s wisdom is greater than my plans.”
Have a blessed afternoon!
My prayer for you is that you will not sabotage on your purpose to make strides to take action when the Spirit of God leads you and that you will stop doubting the will of God in your life. Thanks for expanding on your answer.
DeleteHello,
ReplyDelete✨Sang: Avoid shallow pleasures and seek joy that satisfies the soul.
✨Phelg: Take quiet but bold steps forward, trusting the Spirit’s prompting.
Blessed Saturday afternoon
ReplyDeleteMelancholic
Choleric
Proverbs Chapter 21
My Primary Temperament:
🔵 MELANCHOLIC – Transformed Reflection through Trust
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:30
“There is no wisdom, no understanding, and no plan against the Lord.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to Take Spirit-led action without overanalyzing or second-guessing.
My Secondary Temperament:
🔴 CHOLERIC – Transformed Power through Surrender
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:2
“Every person’s way is right in his own eyes, but the Lord examines the hearts.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to Surrender my drive to God’s direction, trusting His lead over my logic.
These Scripture verses speak to me as a Melancholic, surrender and Trust are 2 key areas I need to focus on. And as I reflect on the scripture verses selected, I thank God today for He has given me hope through my transformational Journey. Therefore, as I surrender my will to God, I will seek Him in everything concerning me. It is not my will, but His will be done in my life.
I am committed daily, to trust in the Lord with all my hear and lean not on my own understanding, but in all my ways acknowledge Him and He will direct my path. So, no matter the circumstance or situation, I will Trust God rather than overanalysing or self reliance. because they can lead to delayed outcomes, missed blessings, and premature death. (Life's goals, vision, plans)
So allow me to end with today's thought. " Transformation is a process, and the victory belongs to the Lord."
Have a blessed afternoon all!!
My prayer for you is that you do come to the place of surrender and trust. Thanks for sharing deeper.
DeleteThank you.
DeletePhlegmatic
ReplyDeleteProverbs 21
Key verse proverbs 21:25
“The desire of the lazy one puts him to death, for his hands refuse to work.”
I will seek to take quiet but bold steps forward, trusting the spirit’s,
prompting.
Affirmation “my calm is empowered by spirit-led action.”
Secondary temperament
Choleric
I will seek to lead with righteousness, not just results- making integrity my true success.
Blessings ladies
Hello everyone.
ReplyDeleteI hope you had a great day
Temperament Transformation through Proverbs 21.
Melancholic
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
Take Spirit-led action without overanalyzing or second-guessing.
Choleric (Secondary )
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
Surrender my drive to God’s direction, trusting His lead over my logic.
Have a good night
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Phlegmatic
Transformed Reflection Though Trust
Key verse proverbs 21 -25
The desire of the lazy one put him to death
for his hands refuse to work
Transportation focus
I Will Seek To:take a quick bold step forward
trusting the spirit
Affirmation- my calm is empowered by spirit led
action
Melancholic
Transformed Reflection Though Trust
Key verse proverbs 21-30
There is no wisdom no understanding and no plan
again the Lord
Transformation focus
I will seek to :trust god’s sovereignty
especially when my plan fall short
Affirmation:god’s wisdom is grater than my plans
Blessed evening everyone
Good Day Everyone!
ReplyDelete🔴 Choleric Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
Guard my words with wisdom, choosing to speak life rather than merely giving commands. Coming alongside others with grace is far more Christlike than bursting out orders. To be like Jesus is all I ask.
🔵 Melancholic Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
Let grace lead me, releasing perfectionism in exchange for peace. I’m seeing progress in this area—but I know there’s still room for growth.
Wishing each of you a blessed and beautiful rest of the day! 🌿
Thanks to everyone who responded today. Continue on this journey of transformation. A special thank you to those who shared deeper, it was a blessing!
ReplyDeleteHello everyone,
ReplyDeletePrimary Temperament
PHLEGMATIC – Transformed Peace through Purpose
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:25
“The desire of the lazy one puts him to death, for his hands refuse to work.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
Let my peace fuel productivity, not procrastination.
🗯️ Affirmation: “My calm is empowered by Spirit-led action.”
Secondary Temperament
MELANCHOLIC – Transformed Reflection through Trust
Key Verse: Proverbs 21:30
“There is no wisdom, no understanding, and no plan against the Lord.”
Transformation Focus – I will seek to:
.Take Spirit-led action without overanalyzing or second-guessing.
🗯️ Affirmation: “God’s wisdom is greater than my plans.”
Have a good night 😴
Hello ladies!
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Transformed peace through purpose.
Transformation focus- I will seek to;
Let my peace fuel productivity, not procrastination.
Secondary temperament- melancholic
Transformation focus- I will seek to;
Trust God's sovereignty, especially when my plans fall short.
bless night ladies!
June 21 2025
ReplyDeleteHello everyone, trust you are doing well.
Temperament Transformation
Through Proverbs 21
Melancholic
I will seek to : Trust God's sovereignty especially when my plans fall short.
Phlegmatic
I will seek to :Take quite but bold steps forward, trusting the spirit 's prompting.
Blessings.
🔴 CHOLERIC – Transformed Power through Surrender
ReplyDeleteSurrender my drive to God’s direction, trusting His lead over my logic.
Second
🔵 MELANCHOLIC
Trust God’s sovereignty, especially when my plans fall short.
Have a great night.